starting to realize there's less middle ground than I assumed between the 'aaah guys I think I'm a system?' stage and just. casually existing as a system online. I kind of figured there would be some sort of starter kit experience a la coming out as trans, where you have to go and do certain things, and get asked certain questions, and people link you cute flash games for no reason and shit, but I've just been finding and reading wikis, essays, and PDFs over here. like I've gotta work on internal communication (are my facets not verbal or have they just given up on talking in words over the years?) and maybe figuring out who's who and how my/our consciousness works, but I kind of imagined (abstractly) that I'd be doing a bunch of unspecified 'beginner stuff' externally as well.
anyway. does anyone want to talk system shit with a newbie who's past the 'aaah [relates an obvious plural life experience] wait was that plurality?' phase but still... before every other phase. I have a lot of context on plural life but very little context on my own experiences as plural. and honestly I'm just... pretty socially isolated rn and would like to get to know other people like me.
(especially if you're like, more than a few years into your 20s, tbh. I'll happily talk to whoever, but at nearly 29 I've noticed my priorities can tend to differ from my younger peers'.)















