#attachmentissues

THE CYCLE OF ATTACHMENT The start of healthy attachments begins in the womb. Optimal fetal development occurs when the expectant mother cares for her emotional & physical health. Also, when a mother is experiencing a happy outlook concerning her pregnancy. Good nutrition & avoiding stress provides an environment for the fetus to flourish. When the child is born, immediate comfort from the mother is needed. She provides nurturing & soothing for her new baby. When an infant has a need, which is normally due to hunger, pain, illness or the infant being overly tired, they will cry out due to their discomfort. An infant learns to communicate their needs in this way. As the parent soothes & meets the infant's needs the infant becomes satisfied, relaxed & regulated. The cycle of trust begins & happens over and over each day. The infant learns to depend & rely on the caregiver as this cycle repeats hundreds of times in an infant’s first year of life. These experiences are a large part of the bonding process between mother and child. This creates an optimal environment for the infant to receive the mother’s loving energy. As the infant is being rocked or held and glazing into their mother’s eyes, the baby mirrors the mom’s smiles & facial expressions. Mother & child become finely attuned to one another as this bonding process continues. This cycle aids in stimulating brain development. When a baby experiences discomfort & the mother does not respond or her responses are inconsistent, the cycle of attachment is disturbed. An infant is unable to self-regulate thus resulting in a heightened level of anxiety and rage. As the baby’s needs are not being met & the neglect continues an infant will eventually cease crying. The infant can shut down completely or go into survival mode, all of which can interfere with healthy brain devolvement. If the mother is inconsistent with her caregiving, the infant can remain ANXIOUS not knowing if or when his needs will be met. DISCLAIMER Assalam Alaykum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh #attachmentstyles #attachment #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #attachmentissues #relationshiptips #relationshipgoals #marriagegoals https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpmr0ieLb23/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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hardhat flex

also like i shut right down when someone doesn't do what i want them to even tho i didn't tell them what that was n after i just. isolate from everyone then when i go back to them i feel so guilty lol

{{ #thatmoment when you remember a bit of your art has found a new home and you are missing bits of yourself. #attachmentissues 😮 }} #somepinkflowers 🌸 #isitjustme ⁉️ 👋🏽😄🌸🌸 #spfcreates2015 🌸 #spfmywondrousgarden 🌸🌸🌸 #ipaintflowers 🌸 from my garden. Up this morning early to paint before 90F only to find the sun ☀️ was still sleeping 💤 Days are getting shorter. 🌼☀️🙁 (at St. Augustine, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/CS1gvErLXzf/?utm_medium=tumblr

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