Heal/Forgive for yourself/others
Stop lying to yourself, someone who lies to themselves and listens to their own lie, long enough. Comes to a point that they cannot distinguish the truth within them or around them. With doing so they lose all respect for themselves and for others. With having no respect they cease to LOVE.
The lies start small. Its a space between what you actually feel and what you tell yourself you feel. Gradually it starts growing bigger but, the difference between steps are so small that you stop noticing the difference all together.
The contempt you carry becomes clarity. The story you tell yourself of why you pulled back becomes 'the truth' or the accurate account. The one telling the stories, over time, cannot distinguish where the comfortable version end and the true one begins.
It starts inside you, like a seed, and bursts open and grows out into everything around you.
The danger of being in such a state is that the comfortable version is partially correct, and you use that partial correctness to avoid examination.
So you stopped questioning your own story, you just maintained it. If you stop maintaining your own story and start questioning it, you can notice how you have made yourself unavailable to true genuine connection.
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