#aspec term

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    ─── an arospec term for : identifying as aro due to a fear of romance / intimacy / etc preventing you from experiencing romantic attraction , not experiencing / experiencing little to no romantic attraction due to trauma , or anything else along those lines

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nimbus -a term for aspec identities that are affected by neurodivergency

nimbusromantic and nimbussexual have already been queued for friday and saturday

as for the color IDs, i used a color detector since i was having a lot of trouble trying to pinpoint the name of the colors

Arelevant

You may be arelevant if attraction, as a concept, is not relevant to the way you enter relationships. (If your relationships are driven by affinity, curiosity, or some other line of thinking, for instance.) This could be for any number of reasons-- discomfort or repulsion about calling your feelings attraction, something like neurodivergence or alterhumanity interacting with the way you form bonds with others, et cetera. 

Dark blue: Introspection, self-knowledge, and the highly personal nature of arelevant identity as something experienced in different ways to different people.

Light blue: The inherently vast and not easily categorized nature of people's feelings for one another.

Brown: Disrupting the paradigm of how we talk and think about interpersonal relationships.

Gold: Common ground discovered in arelevant identity

demioromantic-

an aro-spec identity where one is both demiromantic and cupioromantic!

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term and flag by me, requested by anon :3

EDIT: I'm definitely leaning more towards quoiflux, which can be used as a definition for arospec or acespec people.

Definition:

Basically it's kind of a mixture of quoi- and -flux, wherein the user feels like they are on the aro or ace spectrum, but their feelings are hard to pin down and determine. They may feel as if they fluctuate between different labels, like -flux, but are not always able to describe their feelings or say what labels they are. Quoiflux people may also feel like they identify with multiple labels all at one time, with varying levels of intensity. This can fluctuate rather quickly, sometimes with multiple labels feeling right in one day. Essentially, it would be used by people who have strong aspec feelings that can be hard to pin down and describe and may vary depending on the day or one's mood. These terms do include gray- and demi- labels, as someone who is quoiflux can experience romantic or sexual attraction at some point, just like with these two identities.

Please let me know what you guys think! I need feedback for this, and any help would be wonderful!

-grace

a suffix which can be added onto any orientation which involves being greysexual (or any more specific identity under the greysexual umbrella)

-rey

a suffix which can be added onto any orientation which involves being greyromantic (or any more specific identity under the greyromantic umbrella)

-lace

a suffix which can be added onto any orientation which involves being lithosexual

-liro

cupimaromantic-

a romantic orientation for those who are both cupioromantic and imageromantic!

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cupothiromantic-

a microlabel on the aromantic spectrum that is like a “combination” of cupioromantic and apothiromantic! it is when one experiences no romantic attraction and is romance-repulsed, but still desires romance/a romantic relationship!

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