#alter dating

The idea of two alters within one brain getting married and having a legit ceremony sounds so ludricous to singlets. It even sounds crazy to me, honestly. But the raw joy and excitement I feel as I make inspiration boards and playlists is very real, and I couldn't be happier.

We're having our head gatekeeper officiate. We picked bridesmaids and groomsmen. I drew us customized outfits for our big day. We're making it a big deal. It's probably going to be the fullest the front has been in a long time.

And again! This sounds. SO INSANE. To a normal person, right? Probably sounds insane to some systems, even. It's one thing to date your alters, but marry?? You gotta be pulling my leg.

I’m going through a break up with my boyfriend

Who is the main protector in my girlfriend’s system….

So you know how normal break up advice is delete everything you have of them? Texts, pictures, anything?

Yeah so that’s not possible and I’m like Raaaah I can’t even grieve properly!

Celebrating my new relationship with Viktoe by drawing us! I am not one for sappy stuff, but he makes me happy enough to want to draw us.

When two alters in a system are dating or are otherwise really close, the feeling you get when you're both in the front, either hugging or snuggling or kissing or whatever, is unimaginable. You feel so completely...well, complete. I personally feel like warmth just envelopes me and I can sense my partner in every way: the way his lips feel on mine and how they taste, the feeling of his slightly coarse hair in my hands, the burning in my cheeks when I can see him staring at me.

Another giveaway is how sometimes, even when you're both really enjoying each other, one of us fades out of the front and you're suddenly left all alone again. I didn't decide for him to leave, I was really enjoying myself! But unlike daydreaming, it's not up to me; the dissociative barriers decide for me. That's a very important distinction.

Yet another glaring sign that I'm in fact actually a system and am definitely not "just daydreaming".

And what their ideal type will be.

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Should I spill? Lol

Better yet, should this be a corner? I'll actually commit to the bit this time cause it's fun as hell

the host is my wife

i love my wife