#allthosethings

—and all the other stuff #iWantedToSay but don’t really know why I should.. “I’m #NotRichEnough to buy you #AllThoseThings tho— . ..and #Why or #How are you #Flickering your #Lights like that #WhileWeSRF??? ;#LostMyConfidence in you.😟” **#theSecretSociety: 'Feel sorry for the 👤’person who can only see #theFemaleGenome one way.. "😳😰🤯🤕” ..I’m just gonna act like yah’ know #WhatWay I speak of** 🤨‘THINK the process or ""#Trauma"" behind being or becoming "#Gay" is scary??! (If that’s a thing; wink-wink*) _🧐'#Ouch.. .#WhatAJoke. ..”😞_ •hopefully I wake up when I need to• :#FallingApart[?!] __________ #Nidavellir° (at Mind Games) https://www.instagram.com/p/CnQ2JPAMGC5/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

I think one of the things people really resonate with on Instagram is the serendipity. You know, how you’re scrolling through your feed and all of a sudden *those* words find you. The ones that are so true and so well-timed that they simultaneously make you want to laugh and cry. The words that— when you see them— some part of you wants to immediately dismiss because in the end, it’s a quote on a screen on your phone. But you can’t— you can’t dismiss it because it’s already made your stomach churn a little, your heart beat faster. Those words are the truth you’ve been running from— the part of the advice no one gives you because it wouldn’t be something you’d want to hear. Some call it tough-love, others just say it’s kindness mixed with a dose of realism. But for me, I remember the moment someone told me this. You do not have one thing in your life that you aren’t allowing to be there. Now, for the record, I’m not talking about those things with our health we can’t control. So let’s take that off the table. When I heard it— I was immediately like, “but I can’t change that person, and “I can’t control how I feel.” And I followed it with a million other excuses, like we all do. And the person who looked me in the eyes and told me this— they said it with the sincerity and confidence that made me know it had been a well-earned truth for them, too. You may not be ready to heal. Or let go. Or make peace with that person that hurt you. You may be too busy and too stressed and all those other things you tell yourself. You know, the things that buy you— time. Just stop. Stop waiting. Take control of your life. Even if you can’t control the people and the things in it— you can always control how you see things. And that— that— is what changes our lives. ♥ // August 2018: It’s time to #forgiveyourself for #allthosethings you didn’t know you didn’t know. // © 2018 L I V E in the D E T A I L S #werise—————————————————————————— Signed and numbered SUPER limited edition copies of ‘Courage to Rise’ are coming in less than two weeks. 1500 copies only. The countdown is in DAYS, loves. Stay tuned. ♥ #liveinthedetails #couragetorise #writersofinstagram #thelifeletters (at *caption)

Are you guys having a nice weekend? ♥ // August 2018: It’s time to #forgiveyourself for #allthosethings you didn’t know you didn’t know. // © 2018 L I V E in the D E T A I L S #werise—————————————————————————— Signed and numbered SUPER limited edition copies of ‘Courage to Rise’ are coming in less than two weeks. 1500 copies only. The countdown is in DAYS, loves. Stay tuned. ♥ #liveinthedetails #couragetorise #writersofinstagram #thelifeletters ——————————————————————————

We rise. ♥ // August 2018: It’s time to #forgiveyourself for #allthosethings you didn’t know you didn’t know. // © 2018 L I V E in the D E T A I L S —————————————————————————— Signed and numbered SUPER limited edition copies of ‘Courage to Rise’ are coming in less than two weeks. 1500 copies only. The countdown is in DAYS, loves. Stay tuned. ♥ #liveinthedetails #couragetorise #writersofinstagram #thelifeletters ——————————————————————————

People constantly tell me it sounds like I’m talking right to them when I write. So today, I’m trying something new. And I really am talking to you. (Swipe to keep listening) ♥ // August 2018: It’s time to #forgiveyourself for #allthosethings you didn’t know you didn’t know. // © 2018 L I V E in the D E T A I L S —————————————————————————— Signed and numbered SUPER limited edition copies of ‘Courage to Rise’ are coming in less than two weeks. 1500 copies only. The countdown is in DAYS, loves. Stay tuned. ♥ #liveinthedetails #couragetorise #writersofinstagram #thelifeletters ——————————————————————————

Who are you? I mean, do you really know? Darling, if the answer is no, then you’re completely on-track. I know that sounds crazy— but you are. Because you are going to change constantly through this life— and you are going to sure and unsure, brave and weak. This life is going to fill you to the absolute brim with experiences— some you’re going to love and want more of— and others you’re going run like hell from. It’s going to teach you and hurt you, heal you and transform you. You’re going to meet people you never expected to meet— in both a good and bad way— and you’re going to become someone you never knew you always wanted to be. Darling, this world is going to give you a hell of a lot of things. And you are going to have to sift through those things and decide which ones get a place in your heart— in your life. *You* are going to be the one in charge of selecting which of these things and people and experiences get to shape you into the person you become. Big things and little things— everything from the most life-altering experience you can never expect, down to what you choose to look at each day on social media. So let me boil it down for you. Identity— who you really are— is the one and only one thing that this world is not qualified to give you. That’s your job. So build it well, sweet soul. Build it well. ♥ // August 2018: It’s time to #forgiveyourself for #allthosethings you didn’t know you didn’t know. // © 2018 L I V E in the D E T A I L S —————————————————————————— Signed and numbered SUPER limited edition copies of ‘Courage to Rise’ are coming in less than two weeks. 1500 copies only. The countdown is in DAYS, loves. Stay tuned. ♥ #liveinthedetails #couragetorise #writersofinstagram #thelifeletters —————————————————————————— (at *caption)

If you walk out holding the strings too tight— then darling, that kite won’t fly. It takes a gentle hand to hold a kite against the sky. ♥ // August 2018: It’s time to #forgiveyourself for #allthosethings you didn’t know you didn’t know. // © 2018 L I V E in the D E T A I L S —————————————————————————— Signed and numbered SUPER limited edition copies of ‘Courage to Rise’ are coming in less than two weeks. 1500 copies only. The countdown is in DAYS, loves. Stay tuned. ♥ #liveinthedetails #couragetorise #writersofinstagram #thelifeletters ——————————————————————————