You lie to yourself. A lot. At night, when you think about where you are and what youâre doingâ you tell yourself with a certainty you rarely apply to anything else that you want something more. You want toâ be moreâ than you are. This life youâre livingâ youâve completely outgrown it. And you feel it in your bones. Maybe you want to change your body. Maybe you want to let go of some part of you that still tucks you into bed every night. Maybeâ maybeâ you want to let go of every single damn choice youâve made until now and just transform into a completely different person. Great. You say these thingsâ and you say them a lot. Maybe itâs not out loud, maybe it is. But that is always where it stops, isnât it? I heard this morning that we discover quickly what weâre committed to by what we DO. The point being made wasâ if you say you want to quit smoking while youâre smoking, your words and your actions are out of sync. If you say you hate where you live, but keep signing a new lease every year, your words and your actions are also out of sync. Yeah, I know these are simple examples. I know what enables us to actually MAKE choicesâ especially as responsible adultsâ can be extremely nuanced and complicated. But I also know that life will never change by just talking about it. For any of us. Life will never change when we wish it will. Life will never change when we write down our goals in fabulous little journals with 2020 emblazoned on them. Those are all great starting points, love, sure. But at some point we allâ youâ actually have to take the physical step forward and just do it. Sure, you may stumble. It may not be pretty. Heck, you might even mess it up entirely. But Iâm telling you, forward is forwardâ whether itâs an inch or a mile. And wouldnât you rather be stumbling forward on a walk to where youâre going than sitting comfortably in a life you donât want? THAT is my point, love. We say what we want. But we get what we do. â„ // © 2020 LIVE IN THE DETAILS https://www.instagram.com/p/B7YXwqXFpAA/?igshid=1jzfjkkzn9zag














