āOne of the more challenging, but necessary shifts in perspective, when adopting a responsive approach to parenting, is no longer believing that affection and compassion is a reward. That is conditional love. You are sending the message that āeven though I know you are having a hard time I will not show you love because I am mad.ā Chances are your child is mad too and you are asking them to calm down and show compassion and remorse, prior to you doing the same thing. As a parent we should model these behaviours, instead of expecting our children to demonstrate them for us before we are even able to achieve them ourselves.ā J. Milburn #responsiveparenting #peacefulparenting #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #motherhood #parenthood #momblogger #mombloggers #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #parenting #childhood #momlife #mindfulparenting #jmilburn #perspectivechange #affectionisnotareward #unconditionallove #unconditionalloveā¤ļø https://www.instagram.com/p/CRj1mX5ngW1/?utm_medium=tumblr
