#acearo discourse

If someone can be ace, heteromantic, and cisgender, then they're a cishet ace! Why? They're heteromantic and cisgender. They don't feel same gender attraction, and are cisgender.

Simple, really! So they're not lgbt!

But if an ace is homoromantic or biromantic, they're LGBT! Same if they're transgender but heteromantic and asexual! Hope y'all get the point.

Same if someone is heterosexual, aromantic, and cisgender. They're a cishet arom. They don't feel same gender attraction and are cisgender. If they were homosexual,arom, and cis they'd be LGBT. Same if they were bisexual, or transgender.

If someone is aromantic asexual and cis, they're not lgbt. They don't have same gender attraction and are cis. But if someone is aromantic asexual and trans, they're LGBT.

hey hey heyyyy!! k so heterosexual people are people sexually attracted to the opposite gender. you want to fuck or be fucked by a male or a female, depending on which you are. heteroromantic people are people romantically attracted to the opposite gender. you want to, i don’t know, fucking cuddle and smooch a male or female, whoever is the opposite gender of you. 

if you are asexual, you do not want to fuck someone specifically, or be fucked by someone specifically, of any gender. you may want to fuck. but you do not go to people specifically because you feel like you would like to fuck them. that is not a heterosexual, but this title can enable you to be heteroromantic, because you would like to smooch and cuddle someone of the opposite gender. you can also be biromantic, panromantic, homoromantic, and so on. 

if you are aromantic, you do not want to kiss and cuddle with people, you do not get the butterflies and hoo-hoo-hee-hee-Ryan-looked-at-me giggles in your cute little heart. you may, however, look at a person and think, man i want that dick in me, and that would mean you are in fact some sort of -sexual, because you would like to fuck someone specifically. but you do not have the romantic warm fuzzies. 

heterosexual people want to fuck or be fucked. asexual people do not.

heteroromantic people want to kiss and cuddle and fall in love. aromantic people do not.

you can call an asexual person a heteroromantic if you wish, if they are romantically attracted to the opposite gender. 

you can call an aromantic person a heterosexual if you want to, if they are sexually attracted to the opposite gender.

but they are all in the LGBTQIA+ community, because what the fuck do you think that A is for, apricots? 

and let’s  get this straight (or not): if someone is ACEARO, ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC, then they are NOT HETEROSEXUAL nor are they HETEROROMANTIC. do you know WHY? BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SEXUALLY NOR ROMANTICALLY ATTRACTED to THE OPPOSITE GENDER, which is what the term HETEROSEXUAL AND HETEROROMANTIC MEANS, you dumb walnut. 

Not all ace/aros think gay people shouldn’t express their sexuality or have a sex life, just like most gay people arent pedophilic. Those who are give us a bad name and we get grouped together.

Like I’ve said before, ace/aros saying they’re uncomfortable with sex/romance is different from telling gay people not to express themselves. It isnt because they’re gay.

I understand it might feed a stigmatism that gay people shouldnt express their sexuality but ***people need to learn the difference between desexualizing gay people and having headcanons for personal comfort.***