Blackbird

Bold what you would find acceptable or like for the weekend, strike though anything that is a no, and leave anything neutral that is neutral. If you need to make notes about something or add something, do so, I’d rather have more information than not. I want this no later than Friday morning before class, so I can look it over at lunch.

Abrasion Age play Anal sex Anal plugs (small) Anal plugs (large) Anal plug (public, under clothes) Animal roles  Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) Aromas Asphyxiation Auctioned for charity Ball stretching Bathroom use control Bestiality Beating (soft)  Beating (hard) Blindfolds Being serviced (sexual)  Being bitten Breast/chest bondage Breath control Branding Boot worship Bondage (light) Bondage (heavy)  Bondage (multi-day) Bondage (public, under clothing) Breast whipping  Brown showers (scat) Cages (locked inside of) Caning Castration fantasy Catheterization Cattle prod (electrical toy) Cells/Closets (locked inside of) Chains Chamber-pot use Chastity belts Chauffeuring Choking Chores (domestic service) Clothespins Cock rings/straps Cock worship Collars (worn in private) Collars (worn in public) Competitions (with other subs) Corsets (wearing casually) Corsets (trained waist reduction) Cross-dressing Cuffs (leather) Cuffs (metal)  Cutting Diapers (wearing) - in a bathroom use control way, not age play. Diapers (wetting) Diapers (soiling) Dilation Dildos Double penetration Electricity Enemas (for cleansing) Enemas (retention/punishment) Enforced chastity Erotic dance (for audience) Examinations (physical) Exercise (forced/required) Exhibitionism (friends)  Exhibitionism (strangers) Eye contact restrictions  Face slapping Fantasy abandonment Fantasy rape Fantasy gang bang Fear (being scared) Fisting (anal) Fisting (vaginal)  Flame play Following orders Food play (cucumbers, sorbet…)  Foot worship Forced bedwetting  Forced dressing Forced eating  Forced homosexuality Forced heterosexuality  Forced masturbation Forced nudity (private) Forced nudity (around others) Forced servitude  Forced smoking Full head hoods Gags (cloth) Gags (inflatible) Gags (phallic) Gags (rubber) Gags (tape)  Gas masks Gates of Hell (male) Genital sex  Given away to another Dom (temp) Given away to another Dom (perm)  Golden showers Gun play Hairbrush spankings Hair pulling Hand jobs (giving) Hand jobs (receiving) Harems (serving w/other subs) Harnessing (leather) Harnessing (rope) Having food chosen for you Having clothing chosen for you Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus) High heel wearing - the sub High heel worship Homage with tongue (non-sexual) Hoods Hot oils (on genitals) Hot waxing Housework (doing) Human puppy dog Humiliation (private)  Humiliation (public)  Hypnotism Ice cubes Immobilization  Infantilism Initiation rites Injections Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage Interrogations Kidnapping Kneeling  Knife play Leather clothing Leather restraints Lectures for misbehavior Licking (non-sexual)  Lingerie (sub wearing)  Manacles & irons Manicures (giving) Massage (giving) Massage (receiving) Medical scenes Modeling for erotic photos  Mouth bits Mummification Name change (for scene)  Name change (legal, permanent) Nipple clamps  Nipple rings (piercings) Nipple play/”torture”  Nipple weights Oral/anal play (rimming) Over-the-knee spanking Orgasm denial Orgasm control  Outdoor scenes Outdoor sex Pain (mild) Pain (medium) Pain (severe) Persona training (in scene) Personality modification (RL)  Phone sex (serving Dom)  Phone sex (serving Dom’s friends) Phone sex (commercial provider) Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) Piercing (permanent) Plastic surgery Prison scenes Prostitution (public pretense) Prostitution (actual) Pony slave Public exposure Punishment Scene  Pussy/cock whipping Pussy worship Riding crops Riding the “horse” (crotch tort.) Rituals  Religious scenes Restrictive rules on behavior Rubber/latex clothing Rope body harness Saran wrapping Scarification Scratching - getting Scratching - giving  Sensory deprivation Serving Serving as art  Serving as ashtray Serving as furniture Serving as a maid Serving as toilet (urine) Serving as toilet (feces) Serving as waitress/waiter Serving orally (sexual)  Serving other doms (supervised) Would have to be someone they know very well Serving other doms (unsupervised) Sexual deprivation (short term) Sexual deprivation (long term) Shaving (body hair) Shaving (genital

hair) Shaving (head hair)  Skinny-dipping Sleep deprivation Sleepsacks Slutty clothing (private) Slutty clothing (public) Spandex clothing Spanking Speech restrictions (when, what) Speculums (anal) Speculums (vaginal)  Spitting Spreader bars Standing in corner  Stocks Straight jackets Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) Strap-on-dildos (wearing) Strapping (full body beating) Suspension (upright) Suspension (inverted) Suspension (horizontal)  Supplying new partners for Dom Swallowing feces Swallowing semen  Swallowing urine Swapping (with one other couple)  Swinging (multiple couples)  Tampon training (in ass) Tattooing Teasing TENS Unit (electrical toy)  Thumbcuffs (metal) Tickling Triple penetration TPE Urethral sounds (metal rods)  Uniforms Including others  Vaginal dildo Verbal humiliation Vibrator on genitals Violet Wand (electricial toy) Voyeurism (watching others) Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) Video (watching others) Video (recordings of you) Water torture Waxing (hair removal) Wearing symbolic jewelery  Weight gain (forced) Weight loss (forced) Whipping Wooden paddles Wrestling

PM: I’m glad I asked about CBT, that was not on your list of limits, but I’d guess talking about that is just as strange for you as it is for me asking these things. I’ve sent you a list with orders to fill out for Friday. I’m not looking to give them any reason to say that I’m being abusive and need to go back to jail. Good to know. Let’s talk titles for the weekend. Sir is acceptable as is Master or Alpha. If you think of another, I’ll consider it.

PM: I suppose talking so openly about it made me remember of the things perhaps I forgot to put on my anti-kink list in the first place, so I have to thank you for that, sir. It feels strange, perhaps in the sense I’m more of a do-er than a talker, but in way this is much better. It gives us a full view of the things we would, or wouldn’t do together, so that’s good, right? I’m good with using ‘Sir’, if that’s okay with you.

PM: I agree. There’s other forms of intensity besides pain, but I am very sadistic, so that’s good to know. It wouldn’t be the first time I’ve been called intense by someone without even touching them. You’ll definitely be spanked, I can promise you that. Cock cages? Crops? Any kind of paddle you don’t like? Anything CBT wise you can think of? I feel like it’s obvious, but I’m going to state it anyway, I will control your orgasm- or lack there of- while you’re with me. 

PM: It’s good you inform me of that as well, sir. I’m not surprised to hear that. The way you talk, the way you... picture some scenarios is something that can get anyone going. Looking forward to that! Cock cages, no. I’m good with any kind of paddle. Definitely nothing with CBT, sir. I’m sorry to inform you that, but that’s one of the things I wouldn’t do. Orgasm denial is one of my big kinks, sir. Feel free to use that at will, whenever, and for as long as you want.

PM: Good. Be as bitchy or sassy as you want, just know that I will handle it. I won’t take no as actually meaning no, if there’s an issue with what’s happening or the intensity, I’ll expect you to safeword. With that, what type of rough play is acceptable or unacceptable? Biting, scratching, slapping,  wrestling, hair-pulling, ‘forced’ bondage, etc. What kind of things would you consider funishment? What kinds of things would you consider punishment? Are there any soft limits I need to be aware of? Or anything you think I need to be aware of in general.

PM: That’s good to know, sir. Something tells me we’ll get along real well, and I like that. Understood, sir. I promise to always communicate with you on all those matters. If theintensity turns out to be way too much, which would be interesting to expetience nonetheless, since I have a high threshold for pain, I will let you know, safeword included. All of those you mentioned right there are acceptable, and I know will enjoy very much. What I will not accept is spitting.I do not tolerate that. For funishment I would say spanking. My body shivers with delight with every smack of a strong, firm hand. For punishment, I think I would go with lashing. I don’t... I really don’t like that. Or hanging, of any kind. Other than that, you will find me to be very open minded, sir. I don’t appreciate any body fluids on me, except your cum, and the sweat of your body against mine. Everything else is a go, sir.

PM:  Hm, that very true.  

Well now….I enjoyed the sight. 

PM: Yes, I figured you might.

PM; Oh god. Am I becoming predictable? 

PM: Hardly. Let’s just say I’m an excellent observer.

PM: There’s a difference between being a brat and being disrespectful Furthermore, I approach a funishment differently than an actual punishment.  Let me explain. I enjoy sass, a ‘make me’ after I’ve said an order or whatever and that would likely get a response of ‘what did you say to me?’ and  my hand around your throat, pinning you to something, or otherwise manhandling you, just to name a few possibilities. I like the struggle, the challenge, either verbally, mentally, or physically. Think of it like play-fighting.  It brings my Dominant nature very much to the forefront. But, without a discussion like this, a ‘make me’ would absolutely get you a real punishment from me. 

PM: I know there is, sir. And trust me, I had bitten my tongue down on several ocassions, trying not to be as much. But I also often come out as ‘bitchy’, as some call it, and I’ve tried to do my best to keep myself in check. Hmm.. I just pictured what you said there and- wow. Your hand around my throat alone tickles me right now, and mandhandling me would makes it even more perfect. I love a strong man who can just toss me around me and flip me over, who can put me down to his will. I promise not to ear any punishment from you by being disrespectful, sir. You deserve better than that.

PM: Why did I know that would get your attention, Daddy?

PM: I agree, I’m very kinky myself, so it shouldn’t be a problem. That will work.  Tell me about the times it’s been an issue. I’m sure I can, you don’t know how long it’s been for me. Out of you? No. Like I said, complete obedience is boring to me. 

PM: Then we’re on for a fun and bumpy ride, sir. There was a time when I was constantly called out about talking back, or talking without thinking first, and I remember vividly being punished for it, even harder if I protested about it. I also remember... being humilliated too. But that’s another thing, not too important. This should be fun. I can be whatever you want me to be, sir.

Good. I look forward to it.

PM: Good. You’re under my orders 3PM on Friday thru 6am on Monday. I’m glad I asked. Some of your limits are kinks of mine, but they will be respected. I know I’m also required to ask what your safeword is, so state that too. While I enjoy blind  obedience sometimes, most of the time I find it rather boring. I enjoy taming a bratty submissive. Making them obey me, consensually of course. Choking, restraining with my body, pain play, leaving non permanent marks, rough sex. Do you even have a bratty bone in your body, Kurt?

Good boy. I like chicken and fish. You’ll prepare it at mine. 

PM: On the topic of your orders, I’ve been debating making a weekend of it. Friday after classes thru Sunday. You’ll have time to cook and I’ve been having…Dominant needs, and want to discuss what you are and are not willing to do. 

Understood, sir. I will hand you the list on Wednesday, as ordered.

Yes and yes. I’m just glad it’s helped ease the tension, I hope you have fun defending that title of yours. I think you might have a few challengers. Are you ready to race? Who is your default driver?

You really are a good person, sir, for having this wonderful idea of bonding, a place where we can all be the same, with all the respect and cordiality it’s entitled of course, but a haven, nonetheless. Oh, bring them on, sir! I’m ready to take on the challenge. Princess Peach, of course, sir! Do you play Mario Kart?

Hey, bud. No problem, you’re looking good. Are you kidding? Hell yeah, you should. You’d kill it. I’ll come to all your rehearsals. 

Thank you, sweetie! I will definitely check on who I should talk with to get this to happen. I’m sure it will be fun, plus an excellent cardio all together, so it’s a win-win thing. Aww, you will? You’re too nice to me, thanks! How you’ve been? I feel like it’s been forever since we last talked. How are things?

You’re under my orders 3/19 and 3/20. I want you to make meals to stock my freezer that I can just pull out and reheat when I’m hungry. I like meat and potatoes. I don’t want anything vegan. Think stews and other hearty dishes. Taste is much more important to me than presentation for this. Come up with a list of meals by Wednesday so I can approve it.

Yes, sir. I will. I’ll thinm of the list of things which may satisfy your taste for at least a week, mainly because I want you to have only fresh food, and not something that can get bad or anything. Lots of meat protein. Got it. I hope you’re okay with chicken and fish as well? Just so we’re clear, sir, during those days on which I’ll be under orders, you want me to cook all of this at your suite, or should I prepare everything at mine, and then take them to you?

Yea, no problem. The name’s Dallas, I reckon we ain’t met yet.

I know it’s not, but it’s always nice someone noticed my choice of clothing for the day. It’s a pleasure, sir. I’m Kurt Hummel, Switch. It’s a good thing that we can get to know each other now, right? How you’ve been, sir?