Phi ♡

hey bestie i think ur post might be charmed 'cause you aren't gonna fuckin believe what happened today

and i guess i had this whimsical idea of all the boys sitting on a porch as old men reminiscing about the good old days in the biggest boy band in the world as five terrible dancers with a whole lot of heart, but life is cruel and just doesn’t work out that way sometimes, and it fucking hurts

its really annoying when people spread rumours about you and make shit up isnt it. really annoying and confusing and worrying. SAD! oh well.

the way george looks at dream is just so fucking crazy like there's just not another person in the entire world he looks at like that not once in all of these years has he ever looked at a single other one of his friends the way he looks at dream it just takes over his whole face and his eyes light up Every Time there's just something so fucking crazy about it i will never get over it

anyways when do we realize people in this fandom sometimes treat sapnap in the way drantis do dream. in that at this point they’re WAITING for him to misstep even the slightest bit and the moment he does they’re endlessly attacking him and taking his every action in the worst faith possible without giving him any benefit of the doubt. and now with his apology refusing to offer him any empathy and condemning it even though to me it was just an extremely normal and HUMAN response where he explained himself but still took responsibility and apologized. like i wonder where exactly i've seen that behavior before. it’s just extremely hypocritical. but what’s expecting nuance and rationality and empathy out of twitter. that’s just silly of me.

dream being surrounded by the drolo defense squad in la and then getting on stage and telling haters off like its just so beautiful

do you guys think dream is there too??

the fact that dream tries to see what he did wrong “i just need to talk to people more” no baby you need a gun

Like it's not a joke. When we say people in this space view women as walking vaginas we mean it. Women are reduced down to who can be fucking them. Who might be paying for their holes. What fantasies of sexual violence can be projected onto their bodies. It's violating dehumanizing and repulsive to have to read tweet after tweet explaining that women can't want sex and women's consent doesn't matter. And women who dress like whores are bad women. And women loving each other in public is bad for lesbianism. And women don't belong anywhere doing anything unless it helps form an opinion about a man

this is another perfect example of the way that people in this space treat serious issues as a fucking discourse point and completely disregard the actual feelings of the women involved like i’m angry on dreams behalf obviously like that shits fucked up but i cannot imagine being a young woman in streaming and completely out of nowhere, a streamer decides to accuse another streamer — someone if you’re not friends with then at least someone you’re friendly with — of acting inappropriately towards you, when this did not happen and even if it did it wasn’t something that you gave consent to be shared. and now everyone is talking about it and arguing about it. like i just cannot imagine how violating that must feel but oh it makes some minecraft youtuber we don’t like look bad so it’s okay. and the same way there are all these people in hannah’s replies talking gleefully about how they hope her women in streaming panel talks about how poorly they were all treated on the dsmp and like why is this fun for you??? why are you fucking excited at the idea that women were treated horribly and abused because it means that the minecraft server you dislike looks bad???