My current submissive rules & protocols.
Updated October 2025
Subby Expectations :
(Because I am Her property)
1. No orgasms without explicit permission. Any pleasure, from touching to orgasms, belong to Her.
2. I may not enter or exit any public door without Ma’am opening it for me. Vehicles & safety are the exception.
3. My mouth is Her's . Anything that she wants to see in it, I take.
4. My body is Ma'am's toy, always to be cared for as such. Any random hygiene inspections are strict Pass or Fail/Punish.
5. If I am going to wear underwear for dates, I am only allowed to wear thongs.
6. Kitten's only sleepwear is a collar. A chastity device may be added based on behavior.
Acts of Service :
(Because I am Her love)
7. If Ma'am requests a "Baby Girl Moment", I am to settle by Her legs on my knees without hesitation and await either an order or a spoil.
8. I come promptly and with purpose anytime a "here now" hand signal is given in public.
9. I sit promptly and with purpose anytime a "sit down" hand signal is given in public.
10. I give my most subby focus to Ma'am anytime she snaps her fingers for my attention.
11. Once a month, on any day of Ma'am's choosing, I am to wear heels and a decorative rope tie while preparing dinner for Her viewing pleasure.
12. Every week, I’m to practice my instrument (handpan) for a minimum of 20 minutes.
13. Every day, I’m to do 5-7 minutes daily of a phone free concious activity. I am expected to have an answer for this task every night. My brat cattitudes will not be tolerated for this specific self care rule.
Most importantly:
I know Ma'am's lap is my safe space. I'm allowed ask for it without fear of rejection whenever I want/need comfort.
I want Ma'am to enforce these rules equally for my benefit and her pleasure.
