Hécuba

All my life I’ve been 100% straight until a few months ago. When I was young, confused by the photos I looked up on the internet of women tied up in ropes that I liked so much, I thought there might be something bisexual about me, so I had two flings with other women. The first time I didn't like it, and the second time made it clear to me that men were the ones I really liked, and that I didn't need to kiss a third girl to be sure of it. Later, with more years and experience, I discovered that what actually turned me on about seeing rope models was fantasizing about being in their exact situation.

At the beginning of the year, my Miss appeared in my life. We met through our blogs, and I was fascinated by her almost instantly. I loved the kind and polite treatment she always offered her readers even when they crossed the line; she had a natural elegance when it came to openly explaining her sexuality that I wanted for myself, and a concise yet descriptive way of writing. We got to know each other little by little, and one thing led to another. In this way, my boyfriend is my owner in real life, and my Miss is my owner online.

Why 99.8% straight? In this link and this other one, you have what I've been analyzing about my bisexuality explained in more detail. In a quick summary: I am not attracted to the female gender in general, only to certain women, only to very specific ones. And every time I come across one, I drop the percentage by 0.1%. Do the math yourself. It's highly likely it will drop to 99.7% the moment I sit down to write for a while to get to know and understand myself a little bit more.

As for how I respond to interactions in the comments, it is fundamentally due, in the first instance, to the vibe I get from the person writing to me and, in the second instance, to the type of comment they've made. It doesn't differ much from how I personally interact with anyone in real life. A close friend has all the freedom with me to speak without thinking, to tease me, and I interpret their words that way. If that same joke, for example, is told to me by a stranger, well, my reaction is different. I try to be polite to everyone, and given the impersonality of a stranger's comment, if it seems respectful or made me laugh, I try to respond in kind. If the comment is made by a friend, well, I tease them back because I love doing it and the familiarity is there.