StephB in Charge

Grateful. Wiser. Receptive. In Tune. Grown. Amen. #happybirthday #scorpioseason #blessed #motivated #thankful (at New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4omjXylHQK/?igshid=1fa3j26xa1ga3

Kisses and hugs from my baby girl mean everything especially when she doesn't know I need it. ❤ #family #love #mykid #stephbincharge #journey https://www.instagram.com/p/B4oaiq0lLYR/?igshid=14mfaw3jbfhzn

My nail tech told me she had dreams of being an actress when she was younger. She says she wish she could do it now. I said "so be an actress." She said "I can't." Then goes on to give me a list of reasons why she couldn't. None of them had anything to do with ability. Just personal fears and insecurities. I make cakes as a hobby, and she says "I wish I could decorate cakes like that." I told her to try, that I would teach her. She said "No, I'll make a mess." 😏 But, here she is with hands steady as a surgeon's, painting beautiful pictures on acrylic. Why do we do this to ourselves? Just allow fear to take over and self-sabotage? #mindoverfear #fearless #motivation #dreamlife #pushyourself https://www.instagram.com/p/B4B8T34l5aV/?igshid=qnrd4n5xab23

If you hang out with wiser, more experienced women often, you will figure out the keys to life and survival. #goldengirls #izzyandphilly #mylife #strongwomen #mycrew #mygirls https://www.instagram.com/p/B3HQDMkljTX/?igshid=1oj6myognn5iz

My idea of Fall...#tbt Fall2018 Knit skullies, smoky eyes, dark lips, and dark nails. Vampy all season till April 2020. What's your fall style? 🍁🍂🍃 #fallstyle #fallsseason #makeup #smokyeye #darklips https://www.instagram.com/p/B3DITF2liOL/?igshid=1iwao4onpal1

The road seems dark at times but you can't give up now girl...just keep going...♏ #motivation #goals #beautifulgirl #life #keys https://www.instagram.com/p/B2yhNc7lWk_/?igshid=10gxpboj3fxs7

Right! Like...stick to the plan Steph. Be consistent in your thoughts and actions. Focus! 🧐 #life #mylife #focus #motivation #wordstoliveby https://www.instagram.com/p/B2perv4l2mZ/?igshid=1hcfl2b2odfol

A month ago I decided to get back into my normal gym routine...at least 3 days a week. I'm so glad I did. It wasn't easy, but it was worth it. I feel so much better. I no longer feel tired and sluggish during the day, I'm not out of breath walking up a flight of stairs, and I have more energy. Everything else associated will fall into place, but the motivation to get up and get going is back. Now...off to the gym for my morning cardio. 💪🏽 #motivation #goals #roadtohealthy #gymlife #newattitude https://www.instagram.com/p/B2jbSFtBO0y/?igshid=lt8qe6rexgnj

Gameface on...🤨 Best to get your workout on before the sun and the kids wake up...so no distractions. About to put a hurtin' on this eliptical. #humpday #cardio day #fitmom #spotifyplaylist on #letsgo https://www.instagram.com/p/B2RJw1BFLwR/?igshid=zk7sx3wy0jz3

The summer was a BLUR! 🌞 It's freakin' September already... Shaved ice is officially history till next Summer. I guess that's what happens when you work like crazy alll summer. August was non-existent. As much as I can't wait till the kiddies go back to school... I will actually miss mornings where I can sleep in after coming in from work. I think this was the fastest summer in history. BOOO! 👎🏽 No #hotgirlsummer for me It's #busymom school year https://www.instagram.com/p/B1_PrZil-Z8/?igshid=7cma4wv92irj

I had a thought this weekend...💡 Of doing something I always wanted to do. Something cool. I started getting so excited about the dreamy outcome, I immediately shut the idea down. Too hard. Too much work. I don't have time. It would take me forever to... Where do I even start? Why did I do that? If everyone who ever achieved something great did what I did...we would have no great achievements. Then how would we get inspired? Those thoughts definitely mean something. I saw this quote online... It challenged my thoughts. Time to get my trusty journal out and list some future goals...📖🖋 . . . . . #thisislife #mylife #Blog #blogger #momlife #momblogger #momblog #thisislife #mylife #bloggerlife #motivation #goals #inspire #create #goaldigger #bossmom #lifestyleblogger #loveyourself #blackgirlbloggers #live #life https://www.instagram.com/p/B1nx0VPFjzM/?igshid=g266iy6lo5h4

Going to the fair in Rhinebeck with the fam. If you see me say Hi! 😎 @dutchesscountyfair . . . . #Dutchesscountyfair #fair #familytime #chillmode #Rhinebeck (at Dutchess County Fairgrounds) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1jiJb6BDYR/?igshid=c56309xsx1l9

Wake Up and BE HER! My journal is overflowing with notes and goals and steps. If I had this...I could do this. If I do this...I can be this. Reprogramming in full effect.🌠 . . . . . #thisislife #mylife #Blog #blogger #momlife #momblogger #momblog #thisislife #mylife #bloggerlife #motivation #goals #inspire #create #lifestyleblogger #blackgirlbloggers https://www.instagram.com/p/B1deEiBlJvv/?igshid=1tt7a6pod3gdb

🎶'Scuse me while I kiss the sky..."🎶- JH Have a great day and a productive week. #HappyMonday #Hendrix . . . . . #thisislife #mylife #purplehaze #blog #blogger #momlife #momblogger #momblog #vlogger #motivation #inspire #create #bossmom #tshirt #jimihendrix #lifestyleblogger #blackgirlbloggers #musiclover https://www.instagram.com/p/B1WTAE1FSUM/?igshid=fhlqb65bc5zx

🕕 6 a.m. - Kids still awake. Anyone else's kids pulling all nighters this summer? What in the? 😫 #mykids #mommymoments . . . . . . #thisislife #mylife #blog #blogger #momlife #momblogger #momblog #vlogger #motivation #bossmom #lifestyleblogger #kid #blackgirlbloggers #allnighter https://www.instagram.com/p/B1TSgIIFpFZ/?igshid=1bszg1b05nm1f

"Damn! She grew out of that? She came from out of that?" -The Rose That Grew From Concrete 🌹- Tupac ❤ . . . . . #thisislife #mylife #lyrics #blog #blogger #momlife #momblogger #vlogger #motivation #goals #inspire #soulful #bossmom #live #tupac #lifestyleblogger #poetry #blackgirlbloggers #words #modernpoetry #therosethatgrewfromconcrete (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1Mj00pl24B/?igshid=1c4248319b97a

When the news is so good it seems unbelievable. But then again...you knew deep down you had it in you. Believe in yourself more. 😌 . . . . #thisislife #mylife #nofear #blog #blogger #confidence #momblogger #iamenough #vlogger #motivation #goals #lifestyleblogger #intuition #faith #blackgirlbloggers #selflove (at New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1GYX7qFpoQ/?igshid=kxxizag8451w