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Over the last week, I have seen @stella-minerva being harassed both on twitter and tumblr. In fact, it’s been longer than a week. It’s been months. Months of individuals who support her groomer, Ceri, attacking this seventeen year old minor and her friends because she spoke out–and the Dragon Age Fandom has let it happen over and over and over again. 

We can’t keep doing this. Whether you agree with Jed, like her, or fucking care, we can’t keep letting these people attack a minor because she identified her groomer. This is disgusting. There is now an actual blog jennysofjustice that is threatening to show unedited screenshots of the conversations between Jed and Ceri. They are actively harassing her.

Do not let them do this. 

I am begging you. Do not engage with them. Do not fight them. Don’t do anything but please REPORT THEM. They are attacking a minor for the love of God. Ya’ll say you care about minors and poc in this fandom? Fine, then prove it. Help Jed. Keep her safe. Report this blog and anyone you see attack her because at this point, block them as well, get them out of the fandom, this is dangerous and unfair. No one deserves this. 

(because tumblr does unsurprisingly make it difficult to report blogs for harassing minors! thanks tumblr)

1. go to this link: https://www.tumblr.com/abuse/minors

2. report as privacy violation (if you try to report as “harm to minors,” tumblr will tell you that you can’t do that because tumblr “need to hear directly from someone who is being featured or discussed on this blog”; i.e., tumblr will only allow the direct victim to contact them about harassment). however, reporting as privacy violation will allow you to report on someone else’s behalf.

3. there are a number of categorizations of privacy violations you can report, but ultimately, any choice will allow you to provide a link to the post in question (say, for example, that a blog was threatening to release someone’s private messages) and an explanation of why you reported the post. multiple links can be provided if necessary.

I am absolutely horrified and disgusted that a 30 year old woman would continue to berate and harass a MINOR. I don’t know Jed, at all, but what I DO know is that they don’t deserve this. Leave. Them. Alone.

No matter which way you feel, it’s done. Leave them be. I don’t care whether you support them or are against them, but LEAVE THEM THE FUCK ALONE. I can’t believe this is still a thing. And if you’re on the side of the groomer, I absolutely don’t want to ever see your name on my page again.

Get the fuck out of here.

(and i’m so sorry jed)

if any of you feel the way i do (which you should) here’s a list of people who liked and reblogged that post so you can block them! you’re welcome

jennysofjustice mad-sith-jotu rennuee sunseekerknight nzothloyalist levikrapng nightingalescrow naryacosplay thesmashingkittens

ANOTHER FUCKING EDIT cause these people don’t get it:

Stop harassing minors. 

Stop harassing survivors. 

Stop harassing people of color. 

Leave them alone. 

It is not your place to have an opinion. It is not your place to shame them for how they reacted, or shame them at all. 

Stop justifying and excusing predatory behaviors, pedophilia, and grooming. 

Stop trying to blame the survivor and somehow frame it as them “encouraging” it or “asking for it.”

Stop calling predatory and inappropriate behavior a “mistake.” 

Stop making excuses for and siding with people who doubt and shame survivors. 

Stop excusing people who are friends with predators. Pedophiles are humans. That doesn’t excuse their behavior. These people are not mythical monsters but real people and that doesn’t change the fact that what they do is wrong. 

Those of you who shame, harass, and verbally abuse survivors of color while supporting and believing predators have only exposed yourselves as racists and pedophilia apologists, and probably predators yourselves, as well as people to block and avoid. 

Stop bringing up a topic the survivor themselves expressly said they want to be done with and hear no more of; especially if you’re doing it to re-victimize and blame them.

I am absolutely horrified and disgusted that a 30 year old woman would continue to berate and harass a MINOR. I don’t know Jed, at all, but what I DO know is that they don’t deserve this. Leave. Them. Alone.

No matter which way you feel, it’s done. Leave them be. I don’t care whether you support them or are against them, but LEAVE THEM THE FUCK ALONE. I can’t believe this is still a thing. And if you’re on the side of the groomer, I absolutely don’t want to ever see your name on my page again.

Get the fuck out of here.

(and i’m so sorry jed)

if any of you feel the way i do (which you should) here’s a list of people who liked and reblogged that post so you can block them! you’re welcome

jennysofjustice mad-sith-jotu rennuee sunseekerknight nzothloyalist levikrapng nightingalescrow naryacosplay thesmashingkittens

ANOTHER FUCKING EDIT cause these people don’t get it:

I am absolutely horrified and disgusted that a 30 year old woman would continue to berate and harass a MINOR. I don’t know Jed, at all, but what I DO know is that they don’t deserve this. Leave. Them. Alone.

No matter which way you feel, it’s done. Leave them be. I don’t care whether you support them or are against them, but LEAVE THEM THE FUCK ALONE. I can’t believe this is still a thing. And if you’re on the side of the groomer, I absolutely don’t want to ever see your name on my page again.

Get the fuck out of here.

(and i’m so sorry jed)

if any of you feel the way i do (which you should) here’s a list of people who liked and reblogged that post so you can block them! you’re welcome

I FUCKING DIE LOOK! AT HER!! NOSE!!!

A lot of the lists on tumblr have been circulating all week and some of the organizations have taken in as much as they can use with the size/scope of their mission. I signed up to the excellent Reclaim the Block and they just posted this list on their facebook.

Black Table Arts -  Gathering Black communities through the arts, towards better black futures.

Centro de Trabajadores Unidos en Lucha - CTUL is a worker-led organization where workers organize, educate and empower each other to fight for a voice in their workplaces and in their communities.

Du Nord Riot Recovery Fund - Du Nord Craft Spirits is a Black-owned distillery with a building that was damaged. They’ve “received a tidal wave of love and support from across the nation and many have asked how they can help… Therefore, Du Nord is establishing this fund to support black and brown companies affected by the riots.”

Little Earth Residents Association - Food and safety needs for residents of Little Earth of United Tribes.

Migizi Communications - MIGIZI Communications advances a message of success, well-being and justice for the American Indian community. Support them rebuilding after fire.

Minnesota Healing Justice Network - We provide a supportive professional community and mutual aid network for wellness and healing justice practitioners who also identify as IBPOC (indigenous, black, or people of color).

Northside business support - support businesses on Minneapolis’s Northside that have been impacted by recent demonstrations.

Pimento Relief Fund - We’re partnering with Pimento to provide black business without insurance relief after white supremacists set them on fire during the protests. 

Powwow Grounds - send via paypal to [email protected] - Native-run cafe, currently providing meals to elders, protectors and community, purchasing medical supplies, fire supplies, cooking supplies. 

Southside Harm Reduction- Southside Harm Reduction Services works within a harm reduction framework to promote the human rights to health, safety, autonomy, and agency among people who use substances. 

Spiral Collective - A volunteer full-spectrum reproductive options and support group comprised of doulas, birth-workers, and passionate reproductive justice advocates. based in the Twin Cities area of Minnesota, occupied Dakhóta territories.

Women for Political Change - Holistically investing in the leadership and political power of young women and trans & non-binary individuals throughout Minnesota.

I hate having to continue to talk about Cerisia, but due to stuff happening on Twitter, I will.

Since I have new followers here who weren’t around for it, I was groomed by someone in the Dragon Age cosplay community.

https://stella-minerva.tumblr.com/post/615323859573424128/about-cerisia here is the full post.

There is an account on Twitter by the name of @/DBeaware (anderswasright) that is photoshopping messages between me and someone else to make it seem like someone else had groomed me, and not Ceri.

The person who had been photoshopped, @/Lizanganoodles, had talked about Ceri on her account and what Ceri had done to me, and in response, some of Ceri’s friends or Ceri herself, made a troll account to smear Liz for speaking out. They photoshppped messages between me and her on discord to shift the blame.

They’ve proclaimed they have spoken with me directly and that these messages are authentic, though they are clearly fake and I had never even interacted with Liz before this happened. So, ceri’s group of friends is now targeting people speaking out and well as sending me anon hate.

So, this is just a heads up Incase you see the post around on Twitter or on tumblr. Liz is not the person who groomed me. Cerisiacos is.

i commissioned @xla-hainex to draw my inquisitor andrei and ohh boy i’m absolutely stunned. i can’t stop looking at this. everything about him is exactly like i pictured. he’s perfect, thank you <33

I commissioned @chandeloor to draw my darling Immy and I’m cryin over how beautiful she looks ;-; Thank you so much for bringing her to life