tbh it’s really upsetting that there’s next to no recourses for men who want to be more fashionable. Not like, dressed up and down in Yeeze or Nike, which isn’t bad. Kudos if that’s what you like and feel good in. but there’s no like resource for just some cool shit with cool colors. and if there is and you do that, it’s considered gay and it’s like, i ain’t even allowed to be myself without getting shit on and i think that’s fucked up bruh. idk. like, fuck if i wanna wear some nice floral shirt with some cool green pants to compliment the shirt, i just get looked at funny and i hate it. and especially with me being trans. i love the androgynous style and shit but that doesn’t make me any less of a man but i can’t even try to express myself fashion wise bc i’ll get told i’m “confused” or “going back”, which neither is true. I just hate looking like a basic ass white boy from the rural suburbs. like i wanna grow my hair back out and get on T and have a cool beard and long hair and wear stuff that I feel comfortable in but i’m “not allowed” bc if all these rules that i have to stick by or i’ll get disrespected, if not hurt/killed. idk man. it’s just mad fucked up

just bc you have a "cool" url and an "aesthetic" tumblr, it doesn't mean you're cool or aesthetic. and you're probably a boring person. there's a reason everyone makes fun of tumblr bc all these basic bitches who act, share, and do the same exact things are these amazing and unique people. I'm happy you're doing what you like, i hope anyways. bc if ur doing it just to be "aesthetic", you're gonna get bored of yourself quick.

what i really hate about tumblr is that it's "who's the most aesthetic", not "let's just hang out". I feel like tumblr is the same as every other place on the internet where it's all just a competition to see who can have the best blog instead of just reposting what you like, instead of forcing something annoying and unoriginal/authentic