Something that annoys me is the constant whining about "more queer spaces, more queer communities" but then they're immediately like "yeah! And we need ones that don't cost money or require a purchase!"
Girl that's exactly why they close down after a year. You NEED money to keep these places open. There's no magic Gay Money Pot with endless cash to keep these places open. It requires YOU to put your money where your values are!!
Like there was a queer coffee shop in my city. Owned and operated by a bunch of LGBT people. Not a cishet on the schedule. Tons of young people raved about it.
And it made it about 2 years before shutting down completely. Because all those young people who begged for a place exactly like this would just show up, not buy a single thing, and leave. You cannot build a community without putting your money into it. This isn't about capitalism, this is just reality. You can't open a restaurant where no one buys your food. You can't have a gay bar that only serves 5% of the population and actively excludes everyone else. This is what I mean when I say people confuse "community" and "friend group." You're not obligated to spend money when hanging out with your friend group. But if you want a lasting community centered space, you need to open up that wallet.
Yeah all right lemme just open up my wallet
It's almost like
It's almost like reality is capitalism
It's almost like the commons have been enclosed so thoroughly we can't imagine ever having had commons
It's almost like the flaw here is not that people want community & space for free
It's almost like the problem is that people have tied their sense of community & space to Doing Shit That Costs Money
It's almost like the people in this back-and-forth have forgotten that broke-ass minorities have been forcibly creating community & spaces in spite of oppression & lack of finances for ages
Huh
Just maybe
