#annoyed

i don’t have anything to lose so idc about getting rejected or smth im more anxious about if she says yes 💔 my mom makes it so hard to hang out with people and i look like such a loser trying to plan shit

I recently got married and when we got our wedding photos back, I was surprised to see around 8-10 photos of my Maid of Honour and her husband in various poses. For context, she is my best friend of 10 years and is currently 5 months pregnant, so the photos look a lot like a maternity shoot. I feel like this is taking the mick a bit seeing as my husband and I paid for the photographer to capture our wedding day, not to act as a private photographer for them. AIO for being annoyed about this??

Reddit consensus: OVERREACTING (YOR) (88% confidence)

Top comment: “Unless the photographer was unable to capture all the moments of your wedding you wanted then YOR. This is your “best friend” why wouldn’t you want her to have a few cute pics with her husband? It’s not like it cost you anything extra, right? Idk, I don’t think I’d care at all about this.”

Notable comment: “YOR. it didn’t take away from your wedding pictures or cost you extra, you wouldn’t have ever even known, except they sent the pics along to you.

Its your best friend and maid of honor, and cost you absolutely nothing.

I understand the world says that is the biggest betrayal and you should absolutely go scorched earth and drop everyone who suggests that it is acceptable.. but this is your best friend.. stop looking for a reason to be offended… celebrate your bestie a little bit too, send the pictures to your friend and delete this, because you kinda sound like a petty self absorbed douche instead of a woman who just celebrated the best day of her life so far with her family and friends…..😬”

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If you spend your time online making posts of "day x doing a thing until person notices me" whether that's a text post, a TikTok dance video, creating artwork, or anything else you are actively harassing them and it is abusive.

The options here:

* They notice you and ignore you -> you're actively harassing them they don't want to encourage that behaviour, person you "love" enough to devote this effort to will grow to resent you

* The community notices -> now other people are tagging them to look at you and acknowledge you, resulting in harassing them even more

* They block you -> you won't be able to follow them anymore

* They block you and the community becomes aware -> they experience a bunch of hate and knock on harassment for doing something reasonable

* They acknowledge your demands -> they encourage a dozen other people to do the same thing and start the cycle again, whether they do the thing or ask you to stop you got attention so other people can get attention by putting in the same type of effort

So I had my first experience with a doctor not giving me the care I needed and asked for yesterday. Specifically, I went in to get my IUD removed but the doctor persuaded me out of it. It was the whole reason I went in the first place and it wasn't an easy decision for me to make but it got to a point where I really wanted it out.

I just needed that off my chest because I am really angry at the person who pretended to be me to scam someone like I don’t even have a job and I’m going into my second year of high school like I can’t do that shit