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Paraphile, pro-transID/radqueer, profiction, bodily autonomy and harm reduction over compulsory "recovery," always.

Part of a system, my headmates may use this blog without distinction. Sexual alter/sexual protector/paraphilia holder.

I've got headmates who are consang, transage, trace, transabled, and transtrauma and I support the hell out of them.

I don't like stance labels, just ask for my opinion on stuff lol. Anti-contact fits best but the community's definition is vague at best and completely different for different people at worst.

Cartoony maker by WouldiM on picrew! https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/407027

That's part of what I mean when I say that teens deserve safe ways to explore sexuality. With proper education and the opportunity to have sexual experiences with peers, there are safe avenues that can be made. If a teenaged person is too afraid of backlash from their parents/guardians to come forward about a sexual situation they find themself in because of the shame imposed on them, that's a horrible, unsafe position to be in. Teens are especially likely to do what they want regardless of the restrictions put in place by authority figures (because they aren't being allowed to exercise their fuckin' agency), so I find it especially important to arm them with the knowledge and skills to understand when they might be in a dangerous situation, and how to practice safe sex, and how to ask for consent of every involved party... The number of teens, hell, of people in general, that never come out about sexual abuse out of fear is staggering and heartbreaking, and part of lessening that number is not turning on the victims when they come forward.