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walked in on the boys doing lines of water in the bathroom

you can really tell when a guy character has become a tumblr popularboy because everything about him that can be wrung dry for overwrought angst is wrung dry for overwrought angst to the point of making him sound like a dog that's going to die at the end of a children's movie

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A dni is like the equivalent of putting a sign on the grass saying "don't step on here". you can tell someone not to do something, but they might anyway. either bc they don't look long enough to notice the sign, or just straight up will not care. most people do not think for very long before they follow others. it happens. not everyone is going to read your website or five paragraph intro before they follow. its nice, but you can't force them to. much like a sign on the grass, your boundaries will continue to be stepped on if you don't enforce any consequences. the block button exists. use it. its your friend. You can't control what other people do. but you control your actions and how you respond.

i’m tired of babying grown women who let beauty standards control their entire life. stand up, grow up & get over yourself. enough. you aren’t perpetual victims. exercise the autonomy you refuse to acknowledge you have. you can choose to stop this circus anytime. grown ass fucking women acting like helpless victims to the patriarchy and then in the next breath going “COME WITH ME TO MY BOTOX APPOINTMENT😃” you are traitors and we will never make it out of the patriarchy if personal responsibility can’t be taken

like god fucking damn women for centuries fought to have financial and social independence, and we largely achieved that in most countries, just for modern women who have no idea what patriarchy used to do to us to turn around and go “i’m not the problem, blame men for saying i look prettier after a nose job” you have everything your foremothers hoped and dreamed for, all that autonomy won through blood and sweat, and you waste it offering your body up to the patriarchy because “social pressure” get the fuck over yourself and stop acting like you have no choice. absolutely pathetic

and whenever people criticize women who get cosmetic procedures done and who enslave themselves to beauty standards it’s always met with “it’s not their fault, it’s the patriarchy” and i find that to be such a circular, never ending blame game. yes fucking obviously it’s the true fault of the patriarchy but you can’t hold a system of social hierarchy accountable because the decisions individuals make constitute said system. and turning it into a chicken or the egg debate does nothing besides shift blame to something that cannot be reckoned with or addressed. stop blaming the patriarchy at large for the individual decisions of fully autonomous women

this just feels like choice feminism but on the other extreme no?

i disagree that this is choice feminism because as i mentioned individual choices constitute a system & letting half the population off the hook completely for participating is just silly. but i do agree with your tags that this is a very western take because i am american and truthfully this was an angry rant i made after watching a handful of tiktoks by white american women, and i didn’t proofread. i honestly didnt think this would get notes & i know i could’ve worded a lot of things better here lol

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