how quaint

Sorry I always post about women. There’s nothing else to be happy about in this damn world

“gender and sexuality are separate concepts” and “my gender and my sexuality are inherently connected in ways i cannot articulate clearly with words” are concepts that can and do coexist

I’m falling into heart eyes emoji with you

bisexualism and lesbianity

seeing people say shit like “i wish i as born gay” or “i wish i was born a different gender” makes me s o sad bc ill bet you dimes to dollars that person is on the lgbt spectrum but because of ingrained phobias and the way media portrays people like us, it feels like an insurmountable implausibility, when its really not. if you wish you were gay, or trans, or whatever, then like, maybe you should give the introspection a chance. compulsive heteronormativity is real and it can truly make you believe youre cis and straight and that you never need to think more into it than that.

This is how most people start questioning. If you find yourself wishing you could date the opposite gender or wishing you were another gender to your AGAB then it’s at the very least worth looking into, please don’t be afraid to do so! If you find out you are non cis/het then great! If you find out that you are cis/het that’s also great! There’s literally nothing wrong with experimenting!!! It doesn’t make you a “trender”! It just makes you a human being!!

yall see “love” and immediately go to “romantic love” if you translate “love is the whole point” to “romantic love is the whole point” you need to rethink everything because love is found in everything. in community, in friendships, in family, in food, in nature so actually love is the whole point and u can die mad about it. hope this helps <3

little kids r so funny when presented with any new information like theres this girl I teach who has two moms and a sister and I was like "wow your family is all girls! that's so funny, if my husband and I had a boy, we'd be all boys haha!" And she was shocked that two boys could get married like honey did you think gay marriage was a girls only event

femme lesbians with names that are considered for guys are soooo sexy cool gender you got there bestie 😳

*checking my mood ring* it says i love girls

just remembered i’m a lesbian. what a relief

white lgbt ppl dont know how much trouble theyve caused for us -_-

white lgbt ppl will constantly have to be informed about racism and nonwhite issues bc they're only ever friends w other white people, speak over lgbt ppl of color when it comes to representation and problems in media, not acknowledge when white supremacy feeds into intracommunity bigotry. and then say things like "the lgbt community shouldn't be at odds with each other! 😤" i don't know if you guys know how big a split there is between you and us at the best of times

white gays can reblog this if u can keep ur mouth shut

full offense ya’ll don’t have to announce you’re white, very white savior-y, just reblog the post and stop trying to use people’s struggles to make yourselves look good

wow if you keep existing i just might map out our entire future in my head which includes a cottage, the raising of cats, and many many loaves of bread while still somehow being able to muster up the courage to talk to you

when I’m married I want to do everything with my wife. I mean EVERYTHING. WE will go out to the store for groceries, WE will take our pets on a walk, WE will go get our hair cut/styled, WE will go out to the gym, WE will go out for coffee. I want to be one of those couples where if our friend sees one of us they start looking around for the other one like “Hey how are u, where is ___” I want to be so in love with the girl that I don’t want to be apart from her for even a second, that even leaving her to go to work brings me physical agony so much so that we don’ spend time apart if we can help it. 

hey,,,,,, what if we,,,,,,, video called overnight??🥺🥺 &just sat in comfortable silence, doing homework and listening to soft music, or whatever, but most of all,, simply reveling in each other's presence?✨

You’re not clingy. You’re not too much. Someone has time for you. Someone wants you to cling to them.

you are NEVER too old to nestle under a blankie and get so cozy and warm. remember this