I’m attracted to fictional men and women and real life women; I have dated a few men, but I wasn’t super happy in those relationships because they weren’t the best guys tbh and I only had sex with one of the guys I dated and I hated it, so I’m turned off from dating real life men ever again. I only want to date real life women. I have been rumored to be a lesbian when I was in college; I was asked if I was a lesbian from how I used my tongue to get crab meat out of a snow crab leg (yes, this really did happen); and I was told by a now former guy friend, “Just come out as a lesbian already!”. Does any of this count as being bi or lesbian?? 🤔🤷🏻♀️ (I’m also Graysexual.)
Am I Bi or a Lesbian?
Bi
Lesbian
















