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Hello everyone! I always have been fascinated by the femme fatale energy and I was so obsessed as a kid with femme fatales like Ava Gardner, Marilyn Monroe, Gilda by Rita Hayworth and some characters by Angelina Jolie or Penelope Cruz.

I never tried to tap into the femme fatale energy because I always thought that I didn't fit the "aesthetic", then I read Ava Gardner's biography how she made womanizer Sinatra go suicidal for her and I noticed that femme fatale energy isn't about looks or aesthetic (partially) but your attitude, energy and self love. So I started to get all the information I could about femme fatales and these are the most popular tips I've tried:

💋 Let them pursue. Let them show you how much are they interested in you and how far would they go for your attention.

I think this one it's not exclusive about FemF it's something that every girl should do. It's really simple: if they really want you they'll move mountains for you, and girl, don't even think it's because you set your standards too high because it's the bare minimum. Stop being in situationships where it's very clear that he doesn't want you, I'm sorry but it's really pathetic.

My experience: I've been applying this boundary for a long time now and it's the most effective way to see who actually wants you. Why? Because it's too simple, if they want to they will. This saved me a lot of situationships and giving access and power to someone who doesn't want me. The results are a little annoying because let's be real, boys🤡, they always come back so when I say it's annoying it's because it's ridiculous to see them get confused and then pursue you when it's too late. AND LET ME TELL YOU, when I put a cross on your name there's no way to erase it (metaphorically). Ugh, really why do they do that? They make clear that they don't want you and when you cut them off they decide to come back in the way you seem to want. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, don't go back to them, if they really wanted you that badly they would never have put you in that position.

💋 Don't be impressed by the things they think can get you. I'm talking about superficial things like physical appearance, fame, money, properties, cars, luxury lifestyle, etc. Please I know everyone loves money but believe me when I say it doesn't get you anywhere mentally if you don't have your shit together, don't let desire for rich appearances guide you to shitty men just because they can provide money. You should be able to afford your things so you don't have to be waiting for a man like a poor dog.

My experience: Girl I'm going to spill some tea about this one. I had two famous men asking me on a date, one of them I no longer speak to him and the other one is currently pursuing me like crazy just because he saw I was not amused about the luxury things he was bragging. We're friends for now because I don't trust him lol but he tries every now and then to ask me on a date. Girl trust me it's not that rare to get that type of men, almost every friend of mine has been pursued by a man in power.

💋 Trust in the feminine power. Trust in the power that a smile or a gaze has, learn from the best: Angelina Jolie, Marilyn Monroe, Ava Gardner... A subtle way to let a man know that you like him and you can have him going all over you. How many times a man has approached you just because you looked at him? That's the power you have, women have that power.

My experience: Not so long ago I had a thing with a man and somehow we lost contact but we have a friend in common so we see each other often. The other day I tried this technique to see if a gaze was enough to let him know that I'm interested and it's true, I looked at him directly into his eyes and that was enough to have him the rest of the night right by my side.

💋Red nails theory. The color red is said to represent passion, love and sensuality. The red nail theory got viral on TikTok because a girl said that the reason she attracted more men with red nails was because they saw a lot of red nails while growing up.

My experience: I got my nails done red and I don't think much changed. I think red is a color that generally attracts men but I don't think it's something exclusive for nails. A red lipstick or dress will always be on point.

💋 Be cold af. Not every time but when he does something to annoy you don't react. Could be he's trying to make you jealous, to see how you react or how much you care about him. DON'T REACT, even if it's killing you inside. Act like you couldn't care less and move on. He still flirts to other girls? Then that means you're not in a committed relationship and you can flirt with whoever you want to too.

My experience: This one is sooooo fun to apply and I like to add a little spice and mirror their behaviour. Because when they do something I don't like I usually cut them off and that's it, but when I know they did it to hurt me I like to have my revenge. You've met your match bitch.

I was getting to know this guy who made very clear that he enjoyed single life so I did too and when he saw me on another date he went nuts and stopped seeing other girls. But one day he got angry because I said that I found attractive one of his friends and that night he started a little flirt in front of me with a girl so I just said I'm going to say hello to someone and I went to do the same with his friend. He immediately came so angry, asked for a word alone and told me to stop messing around. He asked me to be in a committed relationship the next day and that was the last time I saw him. I know it seems so toxic but I didn't want a relationship with him and he tried to hurt me so idc.🤷‍♀️

Hello everyone! I recently struggled with validating my feelings so I wanted to make this post as a reminder that it's ok to feel, that's what makes us humans.

One of my best friends announced that she's getting married and I was so happy that I almost cried when I saw the ring. There was a great celebration and I enjoyed it so much🥹🥹. But when I got home I felt so lonely and started thinking about my exboyfriend, then I got into a loop telling myself that just thinking about him means that I didn't get over him and I don't deserve someone that loves me right now.

That loop was about thinking about him and punishing myself just for thinking about him. I tried to suppress my feelings and tried to talk to my friends but again I was punishing myself for having those thoughts and I felt that speaking about them would make them true.

After talking with my therapist she told me that my mind is my space, no one can read minds (maybe witches but yk) and thoughts don't mean anything. She put this example: you know where you are having a discussion with someone that you think "Gosh I could kill him right now" that doesn't make you a murderer.

YOUR MIND IS YOUR SPACE, NO ONE CAN SEE WHAT'S GOING ON INSIDE. It's completely normal in a vulnerable moment to think about the good past because it's your past and is your reference. It doesn't mean that you took some steps back, it's ok to remember as long as you don't get stuck in it and wishing to revive that past.

You can't revive the past but it's ok to have a reference for the future, remember that you're creating new memories everyday. Here some tips to calm your mind:

· Meditate, doesn't matter if it's not a long meditation. Doesn't matter if you need 5 minutes or 40 minutes.

· Write about what you're feeling, every single word that comes to your mind.

· Go to therapy if you think you need it.

· Do a deep cleanse of your room. It's so important to have a clean and organized space because is a reflection of your mind. So even though you're not feeling so well, maintain your space nice and neat. ALSO DO A SPIRITUAL CLEANSE.

· Speak to God, the universe or yourself. Something that helps me is to speak to myself out loud when I'm alone.

Sorry if there's any spelling mistakes, english is not my first language🤗

Hello everyone! It's been awhile...

I made another post about the dangers of using subliminals and I finally given up trying to find good subliminals makers. I'm pretty sure there's good people out there but I spent months trying to make the perfect playlist of subliminals and it's almost impossible.

If two subliminals are good there's always one that ruins the effects and I didn't get my desired results to last or get them at all.

So I stopped using subliminals for 2 months and I recently started creating my own subliminals. SO PLEASE, BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY IT'S THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU. I got results the same f- day, that's when I finally face off the reality that the subliminals comunity is NOT SAFE.

MAKE YOUR OWN SUBLIMINALS!!!! IT'S THE SAFEST OPTION.

How do I make my subliminals?

Audacity app (easy and simple)

Be clear about what is the subliminal for

Write the affirmations

Find a silent place to record your voice (preferably with headphones)

Find a song that matches your energy (be careful with the lyrics)

The songs I used for my subliminals:

Cheri Cheri Lady by Modern Talking -> magnetic energy and power

The girl from Ipanema by Frank Sinatra and Antonio Carlos Jobim -> physical glow up and magnetic energy

Dragon Slayer by Lana del Rey -> protection and angelic energy

I'm a woman by Peggy Lee -> body glow up and powerful energy

Love to love you by Donna Summer -> attracting true love and passion

All of them slowed + reverb

Hello everyone!

When I was a teenager I struggled a lot with body odor, didn't take care of my personal hygiene much because my mother never taught me these type of things, she always told me it was because of the hormones and never helped me by buying products or teaching me how to take care.

There's nothing to be ashamed of, it's never too late to take care of yourself and everyone has to learn. Some people don't have sisters, present mothers or anyone that teaches them.

Apple Cider Vinegar: if you struggle with body odor, apply some acv with a cotton on the parts you sweat most before you shower. Also you can use acv for your 🐱 BUT DON'T APPLY IT DIRECTLY, pour 1/2 glass of acv into your bath.

Towels: use a different tower for your hands, body and 🐱. After using them, let them air dry and wash them twice a week. I prefer to clean my downpart with water and a towel (only use soap after s*x and when I'm on my period). Make sure to dry it well to avoid infections and fungus.

Oil pulling, tongue scraper and floss: literally changed my life ⭐⭐⭐⭐. Rinse your mouth with coconut oil for 10-15 minutes, it's one of the first things I do when I wake up but you can also do it at night. Tongue scraper everytime I wash my teeth, be gentle! Little pressure is enough. Remember to floss everyday.

Double cleanse: double cleanse your face and body.

Wash your back after conditioning: the rests of conditioner may cause back acne.

Dry exfoliating: exfoliate your skin with a shower glove before you shower.

Try to use unscented soaps or shower gels: products with perfumes tend unbalance your ph. So be careful with the products you choose, I personally recommend the Pure Castille soap as shower gel or the Dove bar soap.

Scents I do not recommend for deodorants: coconut, lemon and rose. I think that the sweat mixed with those scents make the smell worse.

Always carry baby wipes.

Antiperspirant deodorant. I recommend the Vichy antiperspirant deodorant, fun fact: the men's collection is actually better. But wash it off before you go to sleep, so your pores don't spend too much time clogged.

Any other advice is welcomed!

Hello! The other day I had a very interesting discussion about dating life with my friends, we were sharing a lot of interesting opinions but there was one friend who is currently in a relationship who told us something that made us silent and side eyeing each other (in a concerned way, not in a bitchy way).

That's why I decided to make a post with dating and relationship advice, I noticed that these type of things is better learn them before getting in a relationship because when there's already an emotional connection people usually tend to deny that is toxic behaviour.

We were talking about the most important things to look for in a man or someone with masculine energy and we agreed that patience and respect are non-negotiables, even when tense arguing.

We were agreeing saying things like: I could never be with someone who screams, insults or is not empathic. And this friend said: gosh I wish I had your peaceful nature, X and I always scream and spit venom (insult) to each other when arguing.

That's when we were surprised in a concerned way, we tried to talk to her very calmly telling her that type of behaviour is not healthy neither for his part or hers. Screaming and insults while arguing are a type of DISRESPECT. But she was like: nah it's alright it's completely normal we always do it, we could never be like you say. Then she refused to listen anymore and changed the subject. (we still are concerned 'cause she talks about it like it's totally normal and no big deal)

Without furder ado... Here are my dating and relationship advice:

Pay attention to the red flags! 👀 Don't expect someone to change and girl... don't even think about changing them. You deserve a whole and already grown up man.

Don't 👏 chase 👏 him 👏. If he really wants you he'll do the pursuing. If he doesn't, that means he doesn't really want you and just enjoys the attention you give him for his own benefit. Let him pursue you, let him call you, let him take the iniciative... If he doesn't, HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU AND YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CHASE SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T LIKE YOU BECAUSE IT'S PATHETIC. The only thing you can do is let him know in a subtle way that you like him and then step back and see if he acts on it.

Be clear about what do you want💍: do you want marriage? do you want kids? do you want to live in the city or country side? Your special person has to share those things in common with you, otherwise you'll have conflict about those things and it will lead to break up. BELIEVE ME. If you want marriage but he doesn't, DO NOT try to convince him or wait him to change, because you only have to options: he'll marry you out of pressure which eventually will make him to resent you or you'll wait forever for something that is not going to come. Remember those are the type of things you want to discover on the first dates and if you don't want the same things in life, then stop there: "Thank you for the good time, but we're looking for different things and it's better to go on separate ways in order to find someone who fits what we're looking for. It's been wonderful meeting you and I'm pretty sure you'll find someone who shares the same goals as you."

Set boundaries and apply them 👑. For example: I do not like to be texted or called while I'm with friends, at work or whatever I'm busy with (except for emergencies obv). I mean, he can text me asking to meet me later and I'll answer whenever I can but I hate when people try to start a conversation while I'm busy. He can expect the same from me, I'm not going to text or call him if he's busy. OF COURSE I let him know if I'm busy and I expect the same from him, I used tell him this: "I'm letting you know that I'm going to be busy with work/with friends for the next x hours, so if I don't answer it's because I'm busy not because I do not want to talk to you. But I'll call you once I'm finished!" It's a personal example of one of my boundaries. You set yours.

This may be controversial but make him wait. Don't have sex with him on the first dates. Get to know him and let trust grow first, make sure that he's someone worthy of having an intimate moment. Sex is a beautiful and intimate moment which you shouldn't give it to anyone. I didn't have sex until we were official and talked about our likes or dislikes (if he talks about sex on the first dates🚩). I talked about this topic with some male friends and they all said that if they really like the girl they don't care about the waiting. They even told me that when they really like the girl at first they don't even see her in a sexual way. So if you feel that you have to have sex to make him like you, girl he's not the one.

Choose someone who could handle kids even if you don't want to. It's a really good tip that made me realize that if someone treats me always with love, patience, respect and empathy, will treat the same way to an innocent life like a kid or an animal. If he loses his temper while arguing then I can't trust him nor with kids or animals.

Relationships require time and patience to build trust, getting to know him, etc. So be aware of love bombing😈, you can't love someone you don't know.

I personally would never forgive cheating and I advice the same for everyone. Never forgive cheating.❌❌❌❌

3 MONTHS RULE: if he doesn't make it official after 3 months, DROP HIM. 🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅 (and I think 3 months it's too much, I used set my limit at 2).

Never date a man who recently has been through a break up. He's most likely to ghost👻 you or use you as a rebound🤡. I usually advice that he has to be in no contact with her ex and at least half of the relationship single. For example: if he was in a relationship of 2 years, he must have been at least 1 year single.

DON'T BE A COOL PICK ME GIRL. If you present yourself as a cool girl who doesn't need gifts, flowers, blablablabla, he'll never do it. He'll be confused as hell when you expect him to. Don't be afraid to show your expectations even if it sounds corny.

These may be controversial too but these are the redflags from my experience: 🚩doesn't pay the first date🚩, 🚩doesn't have a good job🚩, 🚩not ambitious🚩,🚩if he doesn't pick you up or take you back to your doorstep🚩. Don't get me wrong, someone can be a full time student or being on a temporarily job while looking for a better one. But the fact that he is working on a job he hates and is not actively looking for the better job is a redflag for me. That's why I think it goes hand by hand with being ambitious. I have studied and worked my ass off to have the future I desired, I want someone who can keep up with me.

If he disrespects you once it's his fault, he does it twice it's your fault.

I can't think of anything more right now, but if I come up with something I'll add it. If you need any personal advice feel free to tell me, you can dm me or ask me in anonymous.

You can disagree with me but do it from a respectful place or I'll block you. 🤭

*This is from my experience, it could be different to anyone.*

💫⭐️SUBLIMINALS⭐️💫

Hello everyone! I know it’s been awhile but I wasn’t inspired until I recently had a bad experience with subliminals and I wanted to make a post about it.

First of all I believe that subliminals are effective, HOWEVER…. BE REALLY CAREFUL.

On January I saw some comment on Instagram that recommended ro***ma** subliminals and I started to listen to them before I went on a trip to Paris and I got very fast results. But when I got back my nose started to bleed very often, my energy was off, I felt that the results weren’t lasting and felt really sick. 

I continued to listen to those subliminals and like I said, at first I got results but then I went back and even got worse. In those dates I didn’t associate those symptoms with the subliminals so I didn’t know where all that was coming from ‘cause everything went down really fast. Also I had really strange dreams about bad spirits saying horrible things and trying to make me scared with things like pushing me or violently grabbing my face. 

I went through some stressful things with law school and felt overwhelmed about everything so I stopped listening to the subliminals, then everything went normal again. Still, I didn’t associate the subliminals with it but I still didn’t listen to them again because the music felt a lil’ creepy. 

Then a few days ago out of curiosity I researched this channel and I discovered that some years ago they/them were accused of putting bad affirmations. I read some comments where people had similar symptoms  but I read one that made me literally froze: “So that’s why when I used her subs I would get nosebleeds. I thought I was just dehydrated.”

Then everything clicked.

So please please please please please be really careful, do your research about those channels or make your own subliminals. 

I apologize in advance if there is some grammar or spelling mistakes, english is not my first language.

*This is from my experience, it could be different to anyone.*

So this is a list of things that I noticed that lowered my vibration and got bad energies from it. I wouldn’t say they are facts, but they are very common.

Music with negative lyrics: thanks to some advice I’ve noticed that most of the actual (and not actual) songs have negative lyrics. Like heartbreak, meaningless sex, drugs, money, fights and some others who don't have any sense. 

I totally understand and respect the songs about heartbreak, they are a beautiful way to express your feelings, but constantly listening to them leaves a mark on your subconscious. 

Reading or watching documentaries, shows, movies, etc. about murder or exorcisms. 

Not decluttering or cleaning often. Including your phone! Deleting emails, cleaning and getting rid of stuff you don’t need makes space for new better things! 

Having broken objects around you.

Not keeping my business in private: I’m not saying you shouldn’t talk to your friends, but be really careful who you talk to, because who I considered to be my closest friends are no longer close. 

It’s not because they are bad, it’s because I evolved differently and became more positive, while they were constantly complaining and did nothing to change their lives. Also because they were very skeptical so whenever I told them about manifesting or spirituality they responded in a discouraging way. 

For example: I always believed in real love, so when we were talking about love and how happy I was finding love they were like: ew love, men are the worst, sex is the only thing that matters, etc. 

That’s the type of person you want to keep away in order to let better people in. 

Gossip

Going to sleep and waking up next to my phone. Try to spend the minimum on the phone, it’s healthier. Leave the phone 2 hours before sleep and 1 hour after sleep. 

Not going to parties protected. Parties are a place where a lot of energy is exchanged, so protect your energy and try not to party often. 

Meaningless sex: sex is a way to express love and a sacred exchange of energies. Get to know the person, see if you have a connection and don’t let anyone treat you as an object (and don’t treat anyone as an object). Sex is too beautiful to give it to someone who doesn’t appreciate you. 

Glorify celebrities. Don’t obsess with celebrities, they are human beings like you and me. 

Alcohol and eating junk food

Spending too much time on social media and posting seeking validation.

Being in a rush, wake up early or get ready sooner.

Not doing a weekly spiritual cleanse

Not expressing gratitude everyday

Cussing and complaining

Pornography

Any ideas on how to start living accordingly to my new happy reality? Why do I not fully believe it happened?

Hello! Thank you for asking I really appreciate the trust.

From what I've read it seems that you are struggling a little bit with self concept and feeling gratitude. I don't mean that you are not grateful, I mean feeling that gratitude internalizing that emotion.

I could be wrong, but I percieve that you thought the self concept you had about yourself would change with those new people in your life. Now you are kind of surprised that didn't change and you must be a little frustated.

I'm going to give you some recommendations to change that self concept in order to calm those thoughts you've told me and internalizing gratitude.

First of all, what you have is what you deserve. There is a phrase that I repeat to myself when I'm scared of losing my special person: If I exist, he exists. Try to apply that to your situation, if you exist they exist.

Be grateful for who you are right now, you are no longer that person in the past because you are the better version, that's why you have what you wanted.

Think about your past self as another person outside of you who is dying because is not recieving attention, your past self is scared of change because that means there won't be space for them in your present. That's why your thoughts are making it hard to enjoy at 100% your present, because it's fighting hard to remain alive.

But are you that person? Not anymore.

I suggest to write a letter to that past self thanking them for the lessons but explain to them that you have to let them go. Tell them that there is no need to be scared of recieving good things, there is no need to fight anymore, that they can lay down and finally rest in peace because you achieved what you wanted.

Your worth comes within you, I don't know what happened in the past but practice forgiveness. Especially for yourself, forgive yourself. This is the first time you are living this life and you are learning from every mistake you make, everyday that passes by is another day of evolving to be a better person. And that doesn't mean that you weren't before, as I said, you are constantly learning. Making mistakes doesn't mean that you don't deserve good things. YOU. DESERVE. WHATEVER. YOU. WANT.

Practice gratitude whenever you are having a good laugh with them or just having a good time. Take some seconds to feel the good vibration you have at that moment and in that moment you'll feel the gratitude.

Do meditations about gratitude. It doesn't have to be long or laying down. Just do whatever you usually do to enter in a peaceful state of mind (could be listening to music, drawing, cleaning, whatever makes you feel calm). Take some minutes to look at what you have, repeat to yourself: wow I've achieved that, what I wanted I got it because I am that powerful. There's no need to be scared of losing it.

Be aware that those thoughts are temporary, it's pretty normal to feel a little bit scared of losing what you attracted. But it doesn't mean that you are going to lose them, when you are having those thoughts don't try to stop them. Just let them flow and once you have calmed down count to 5 and repeat to yourself as many times as necessary that those thoughts aren't your reality. I use this method that is a Harry Potter reference, I call it the Riddikulus spell. I know it sounds childish but it works for me lol. The Riddikulus consists on seeing those thoughts as some kind of goblins that are trying to get you furious. So if a small green goblin is bothering you what are you going to do? Slap it of course, you are x10 bigger and stronger lol. And if you think about it is kinda funny.

I know is a strange method, but I hope you have understood what I meant. 😅😅😅

I hope it has been helpful to you and if you need anything else don't hesitate to contact me. Suggestions are welcomed.

I apologize in advance if there is some grammar or spelling mistakes, english is not my first language.

Let’s start a little bit with my own experience so I can use it as an example of the mistakes I’ve made.

A long time ago I went through a break up that really hurt my feelings because I was in love and I didn’t want to end the relationship. He was the one who wanted to break up and I totally lost my mind. I started crying and begging on my knees (the clownery) asking him to give it a chance so we can work it out. He didn’t, we went to no contact, I was blocked on everything and we ended on really bad terms.

The relationship ended because he said he didn’t love me anymore and the days after the break up I pressured him so much that he ended up blocking me. I spent like 4 months trying to manifest him back and I stopped trying because I met someone who catched my interest but didn’t work out with this new person and I finally spent some time focusing on myself. And boom, that’s when it happened. 

I started with the law of attraction, the 3x6x9 method, but it didn't work out. Again I tried with spells, but it didn't work out either. And finally I tried with the law of assumption, which I saw some movement on the 3D but didn’t work out because I cared too much about what I was seeing on the 3D. I cared about something he did that was the opposite of what I was trying to manifest and I surrendered at that first “inconvenience”. 

Mistakes I made:

The mistake I made in every method is doing it from a place of neediness, desperation and lack of… When you are hurt the first thing that comes to mind to ease that pain is to have that person come back. So you act and feel like that person is the solution and the medicine you need. 

Another common mistake is skipping shadow work and self concept. I know you must be tired of hearing this, but it’s true. 

Not giving time to heal. Even though it is related to shadow work, it is something I recommend doing separately. And soon you’ll know why.

Trying to manifest everything at once.

Not ignoring the 3D.

It depends on your manifestation ability that some of these things affect your manifestation. There are great manifesters who can do it in a blink and there are some others that need to “work out”. I needed to work out because I was a beginner in spirituality and I had just discovered about manifesting. 

I don’t want to get your hopes down, but it’s important to know there are some things that take longer than others. 

Manifesting it’s all about feeling that you already have it, that’s the key. Feel, act and plan like you are already living the life with your SP. BE DELUSIONAL. 

How to fix those mistakes?

First you have to take your SP off the pedestal, he/she is a normal person that came out of your powerful mind and can make shitty mistakes that turned out to be hurtful. He/she is not someone who has something that makes him so superior that you are chasing in order to be complete. Let’s be for real, chasing someone like he/she is some kind of deity is kinda pathetic. 

There is a popular belief that says that everyones is pushed out. I personally believe is true, so start doing f****** Shadow work! Start watching negative thoughts and trauma as some floating elements that you can observe and analyze, imagine yourself like this scene from Iron Man. Imagine that the small spheres are your thoughts and emotions, and the big spheres are the origin of those.

Think about how you can fix them. What can you do to change that perspective or stop stressing about it? Analyze them like you’re Tony Stark trying to figure out things in his lab. If you think you need help with some traumas, don’t be afraid to go to therapy and if you think you can do it alone, search shadow work questions (they may help you a lot). 

On the other hand, we have self concept. Like I said, take that person off the pedestal and stop thinking that manifestation comes from an external place. It comes from yourself, you have to be aware of how powerful you are. I know it can be scary because you start noticing that it only depends on you. 

Stop your life for a minute and say to yourself, wow I am that powerful. Start questioning yourself and your life in order to change it. What do I really want? How do I want it? Will this fulfill me? Am I hurting someone? 

Start looking at yourself and seeing like the beautiful being you are. Not only physically but mentally too. There’s nothing more beautiful than a smart and emotionally intelligent person, because at the end of the day what really matters is how kind your soul is. 

When you start healing traumas and cultivating your mind, you’ll see some physical changes: my skin started to clear, my face deflated, the facial symmetry came back and my eyes reflected peace and happiness. 

Self Concept is not only about convincing yourself that you’re beautiful and worth it. It’s also about setting boundaries and doing things that you love. You can’t welcome new things in your life if you’re still attached to the things that no longer are healthy for you (lovers, friendships, studying something you’re not passionate about, working in a job you hate…). I’ll write another post entirely about this. 

GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO HEAL. This is very important because I didn’t give myself time to heal and when I manifested him back I broke things off because I discovered that I no longer wanted him. I hurted him and I felt like shit. 

So what I mean is:

Heal about the things that hurt you otherwise you’ll still feel resentment towards him/her and it won’t be a healthy relationship. This way it’s most likely to end. 

Also heal and you may notice that you no longer want that. Think about how many great new things could be waiting for you ;) . Aren’t you excited to meet new people? There are so many great people around the world and it’s really beautiful to meet them. Also, you deserve better lol. 

When I discovered manifestation I tried to manifest a lot of things at once. Your mind is a muscle and it needs to be trained, especially when you are a beginner. Again, there are some people that can do it so nothing is impossible. But it’s my personal advice to go step by step so you don’t get overwhelmed and frustrated.

Don’t react to the 3D, whatever is happening take it like the universe is testing you. The energy and emotions you put into what you are seeing are charging that engine and you'll see more of that. So you have to options:

Feed the engine you don’t want

Wait to the engine you want to feed

List of things you can do to manifest:

Scripting, write a letter to your person as you already have them. Imagine that you’re writing a beautiful birthday letter, Valentine's day letter or imagine that someday you are feeling really grateful so you decide to write that letter to give it the next time you see them. 

Talk about it, imagine that you are having a conversation with a friend about them. Imagine that someone is asking about how you achieved it, how things are going with them, how are you feeling about it, telling your plans for the weekend with them, talking about when you tried a great restaurant with them, etc.

Act like you already have this person: start sleeping in one side of the bed bc you are sleeping with them, you always clean yourself, you always look great, make some space in your closet to their things, make a playlist on Spotify for your car rides, plan some outfits, when something good happens think about the excitement to tell them, etc. 

Something that helped me is cleaning and readjusting my house. Throwing away some clothes and things was a practice to get rid of things that no longer serve me even though I have a special bond with it. 

For example: I had a broken pair of Converse that I didn’t want to throw away and I thought: you know what, this reflects what I really want. I have to be capable of getting rid of these if I want a new pair, I will create great memories with the new pair and the good old  memories will be on my mind, throwing them away doesn’t mean I’m going to forget everything.

Visualize it before going to sleep. Start imagining small things like, a picture you’re going to take of them, a picture they’re going to take of you, a small conversation, buying groceries with them, arguing about which movie is better, listening to a new song together, dancing together, just hugging, looking at the sunset, maybe a freaky thing ;))))) (but just once, because you want to attract them with love not lust). Whatever makes you feel a warmth in the chest. 

✨ Hello everyone! ✨

Three years ago I started my spiritual journey and I went through some situations that I wish I had someone to guide me, of course I had my spiritual guides. But I mean someone who I could ask, talk and teach me about it, because when we start our spiritual journey sometimes we can feel overwhelmed about the amount of information we recieve or we feel lost on some subjects because we don’t really know what’s going on.

So I’ve decided to create this safe space so I can help or just simply talk. 

I think this can be a very beautiful thing and I’m pretty sure we’ll create an awesome community. 

I’ve seen that one of the popular subjects are manifesting and SP, so we’ll start there in the next post!

Feel free to suggest any topic!