the cute gay boy

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GO TO THE HELL I DONT WAKE YET AND I DONT SLEEP WELL

i gotta remember this

personally i think it's that society in general (and I'm including in this the outward behaviour/speech acts of many straight women) does not see women as being horny for men's bodies, or men's bodies as something that people are horny for. And then on top of that since men's attractiveness, not deriving from their bodies, must be bound up in their success as a man and being gay is a failure at being a man, gay men must be extra unattractive, so it's extra perplexing

The (conspicuously feminist) psychoanalysis explaining why women like yaoi didn't arise out of confusion or academic curiosity, it's a defense against accusations of fetishization

And yeah I think a big part of it is a cultural incredulity that women can actually be sexually attracted to men (or indeed sexually attracted), and that they aren't just going along with sex and relationships en masse out of obligation.

Yes i have been fingering myself until my body shuts down

we don’t have to fight anymore

“The Family Dog” by Deaf artist Susan Dupor, 1991

more details about the process here via the EFF

The sooner this can be understood, the sooner we can do away with victim blaming culture. And the sooner we can do away with victim blaming culture the sooner atrocities like cults, sexual assault, and abuse can stop being so prolific. Victim blaming culture allows these atrocities to thrive. And they will continue to thrive until we shift the blame to where it rightfully belongs.

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