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the gem, the big temptation, the forbidden fruit, if you will, is EATEN BY THE PRIEST, and everyone proceeds to blame a woman for causing the fall of the church/the people etc.;

the church caretaker/secretary who does a lot of work at the church, but misunderstands the message of the church, is literally named Martha; and

it means so much to me (a former catholic) that judd made sure to have martha forgive grace. in listing all her sins and she never really considered the contempt she held for grace as something that was seen as a sin. in her eyes the hate and judgement for this harlot/whore was justified bc thats all she saw her as

but judd represents everything that catholicism should be in a way. he cares more about the people than the numbers than the us vs them. to him everyone should be met with the kindness jesus promises and the kindness the church should promise. grace included. there was never hesitation about whether or not grace was justified in her actions or if she deserved the end she got - to him grace was just another lost soul who deserved sympathy and compassion as much as any worshipper