Shit Men Send Me

Well my friends it’s been a while. I’m now single and this is what I get to deal with now.

God preaches love, not hate.

I tried to explain my hatred of Umbridge isn’t that she’s full of traditionally feminine attributes.  

It’s that she’s lawful evil. 

If you did an alignment chart, no one would represent lawful evil more than Umbridge. I don’t think there’s ever been a character that better sums up lawful evil. 

And, to me, lawful evil is the most terrifying and disturbing evil there is. 

To me, lawful evil is the shit that gets thousands of people killed while the person responsible walks away feeling like they did their duty. 

Evil forces like Bellatrix and Voldemort are fairy tales. They’re the bad guys a good guy can chase away with a sword or wand. 

Umbridge is that evil that really does lurk in the hearts of men (and women). The realness, the plausibility of it, makes her amazingly uncomfortable. 

hi im sugar and i made a post prior to this about my situation. Long story short, my dad (a black man) finally had his long-awaited mixed baby casey (here she is my lil sis 💕)

and has decided that he longer wants to talk to, support or acknowledge me (his fully black, dark skinned, trans daughter) and refuses to help me and my mother pay for college. and ive always noticed that he was off about me, that he was kinda distant and deeply and vocally dissatisfied w me as a whole but who woulda thought huh lmao.

heres what he said to me (i blurred out the deadnaming and misgendering bc i hear it enough from him on the rare occasions i have to talk to him):

heres what he said to my mother about me and what my mom said to him:

and yes my mom saying we dont need help is so freaking untrue. we’re poor and my dad is the one making bank and im so freaking worried that i may have to drop out of school but if i do im worried i might never go back and honestly waking up these days is really really fucking hard lol.

my dad is keeping my sister from me, left me n my mother to struggle w paying for school and on top of that hes no longer going half for my hormones w my mom so really everything is effed lmaooo!

i’ve raised about 650 on tumblr with the help of everyone that that helped finish covering my room and meal plan and the bill is halfway paid.

heres what my bill looks like for this semester.

here what we paid and what we owe:

im trying to get a job on campus so i can help pay alongside my mom but my full time status may make it hard. at the very least i just wanna pay off this semester and if i have to drop out then ig i will so ty for anything anyone can do to help.

if you can please please donate or reblog or send me some nice messages bc at this point anything helps me stay grounded and hopeful

• you think Trans boys can still be boys with long hair

• you think Trans boys can still be boys if they like dresses

• you think Trans boys can still be boys even with no physical transition

• you think Trans boys can still be boys if they’re “feminine”

• you think Trans boys can still be boys if they like pink

My uncle, totally cis and straight, has hair much longer than mine. His hair has been longer than mine since I was 6. And I am now a young adult.

There’s be a recent surgence of cis boys wearing dresses and skirts for many reasons, one being to say “fuck dress codes”, but some just because they want to.

There are numerous reasons, including medical or monetary issues for someone to not transition. You’re still you.

I knew a boy (may have been queer but 90% sure was cis) who played with Barbies, did nail polish with me, played house with me, and would also have lots of different chapsticks, some even tinted. 

My little brother (who honestly is evil but is probably cis and is bi) loves pink, it’s his favorite color. A lot of boys when I was in school loved pink too, and they were also like, football players and whatever. Not great guys, they were pretty dumb, but their liking of pink never brought their masculinity into question.

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X-files

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Diners, Drive-ins and Dives

Stranger Things

A Series of Unfortunate Events

The Originals

Greenhouse Academy

Pretty Little Liars

My Little Pony