Guapa

bi equivalent of femme: doe bi equivalent of butch: stag

There are more for nb bis and such you can look into but there’s the basics! Look I’ve even designed flags you can find if you scroll through this tag! (i didnt come up with the terms)  

I seriously don’t know enough about my own sexuality.

Image One:

Doe: Feminine bi girl

Stag: Masculine bi girl

Tomcat: Androgynous bi girl

Image Two:

Mage: Feminine bi boy

Knight: Masculine bi boy

Druid: Androgynous bi boy

Image Three:

Dove: Feminine nb bi

Crow: Masculine nb bi

Butch and femme are NOT lesbian-only terms, they are not even WOMEN-only terms.

https://vaspider.tumblr.com/post/185533845186/ok-so-i-like-boys-and-i-might-be-a-trans-dude-but

https://vaspider.tumblr.com/post/171936201311/hey-not-to-be-rude-but-i-noticed-it-said-that

https://vaspider.tumblr.com/post/173899382096/hey-im-a-bi-person-who-has-mostly-left-the

The terms above are rarely ever seen, and it’s a growing issue that LGBTQ+ teens come to tumblr and are dissuaded from using their own identities and coerced into thinking similarly to TERFs.

Tumblr has a culture of extreme sensitivity and shame hosting thousands of teens and adults that come here to explore themsleves freely and find communities unavailable to them in person, and many people are subsequently shamed out of spaces before they have the information and skills to combat radicals and and actual phobes. Not everyone can spot the difference yet between cries of “I’m here and I need visibility, respect, and support,” and the reverse, the shouts of “Pay attention, I’m more important, value me!” Language used to protect the LGBTQ+ community is turned on its head and shaped into TERF and radical propaganda that resonates with young teens because it sounds right, it sounds politically correct, and nobody wants to step on any toes.

The very first opening claim from OP screams just that: I hear you and I want to accommodate your needs. Some needs shouldn’t be met. They aren’t needs, they’re rallies for segregation within the queer/LGBT community and we need to stop propagating them.

This post isn’t cute. You can use any of the terms above that you like, and you absolutely can use butch and/or femme.

Lesbian? Butch and femme.

Bi? Butch and femme.

Trans? Butch and femme.

Nonbinary? Pan? Demi? Aroace? Butch and femme, butch and femme, butch and femme, butch and femme.