About a week ago, I saw a post by @/queer—destroya asking for clothing donations to @/miaherrington13. I had some clothing to spare, so I contacted her. After some time, I backed out because of personal reasons. When I backed out, @/god-of-all-demons sent me a hate message and miaherrington13 posted a hurtful post on her blog. Her post was untrue, as I did not intend to cause her any distress, I backed out due to fears of my privacy being breached. I wrote this message not as an attack against miaherrington13, but as a warning.
The same thing happened to me - she kept going back and forth on what sizes she was and I’m also a minor so I realised I didn’t feel comfortable sending clothes to people I didn’t know, but she has tried to contact me again after this and I sort of just got odd vibes from her in general (when I first contacted her I said I might be able to send her feminine accessories and she said “I think I can fit that size” which…was concerning?). This is not that you shouldn’t give clothes to her if you feel comfortable, but I’m just telling you to be careful especially if you’re young.
Also, because unfortunately I have to clarify this - It is not because she is transgender and asking for clothes. I have gladly given clothes to in-person trans friends who happened to be the same size as me, but backed out of this specific gifting because of the reasons stated above. Please do not harrass her because she is trans and asking for clothes; I know that it’s a very desperate situation especially with parents who aren’t supportive.
Oh, also she blocked me when I replied to her message that she sent like a week or two after our first conversation with a confused “hello?” lmao
