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It can also be found on Google Drive here and on Bluesky here.

As a trans woman, I really, really, don't appreciate people acting like they know what it was like for me growing up. Like yeah, I realize that your childhood was like that and I'm sorry that you were treated that way. But don't act like that's how it is for everyone.

I was very much seen as one of the guys growing up. I went to "boys nights" with the guys, which typically consisted of very masculine activities, I had gay cis dudes hit on me, I never once was seen as anything other than a dude.

Guys never once mistreated me, or saw me as anything other than a man. Even through University, I was seen as a man to the point where my University friends were shocked when I came out to them as a trans woman.

I was even treated as "one of the safe ones" all through high school by the girls I hung out with. I had an all female friend group that I hung out with and gossiped with, and was allowed to hang out with them in and out of school, because friendship with me never came with the possibility that I was gonna make things weird and try to fuck them. I showed no interest in dating them and treated them like any other person.

They literally called me a "Girl's guy".

And then there's my husband, who hated being a girl, hated femininity, was bullied by girls growing up, never had any friends aside from a few guys in high school, and was never accepted as a girl by girls.

There is not one true way to be Trans any more than there is one true way to be a man, a woman, or non-binary.

"NO, Imi. You aren't a girl."

Sweetheart, back then I thought i was.

"NO"

Which is to say, gender can't be flattened without losing something. It's a social construct. It's a set of traits linked to secondary sex characteristics. It's a spectrum. It's a Potato Head of expression and performance and identity. It's all of those things and none of them and I'm going to shake it shake it shake it shake it until all the weird stereotypes fall out and then I'm going to EAT IT with GLITTER and KETCHUP.

If you can correctly identify what type of dog Zorro is, you get a prize*

polaris 7 It's been a long time...but the real shocker is that I'm still drawing enough wolgraha to make 100+ page books in the year of the lord 2026...😳💦

Both Exarch and Zenos live mostly in their head. They're fueled by what they THINK the wol is, and they walk down the two extremely opposite paths guided by their "idol". They take the superficial, the outer wol shell, and inject their beliefs and expectations inside it. They excel at being detached from reality, as I've said, Raha has always been a chuunibyou, and whatever Zenos is I'm not equipped to talk about, I'm out of my depth with him, so I'm passing the mic to zenosfuckers.

A need for love, connection, belonging goes unfulfilled, forms a void in your heart, and a parasocial relationship tries to fill it. Lonely, isolated? You encounter someone whose actions appeal to you on a personal level, and this "fateful meeting" turns your life around, the stars align and spell out your future together (on one side of an epic battle or the opposites, no matter). You're meant for each other.