Hi Ego! How’s life going? I hope you’re doing well!
I wanted to ask you something because you’re one of the artists I really look up to.
Lately I’ve been struggling a lot with drawing. I have so many ideas I want to bring to life, but every time I try to draw a pose or a full body, I get frustrated when the proportions don’t look right — even though I didn’t used to have this problem before. I usually end up erasing everything, giving up, and then feeling guilty for spending time on TikTok instead of drawing.
It feels like I’m stuck in the same cycle over and over again: I draw something, it doesn’t look right, I erase it, I try again, erase it again, get frustrated, and end up procrastinating instead. Then, a little later, I feel the urge to draw again… and the whole cycle repeats.
I was wondering if you’ve ever gone through a phase like this — when nothing seems to turn out the way you want, or drawing just feels frustrating for a while. If you have, how did you get through it?
There’s no pressure to reply — I was just curious about your experience, knowing I’m probably not the only one who feels this way. There are so many artists out there, both small and big, who probably go through similar things.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope you have a wonderful day! ❤️
thank you! :> I think that's something we all go through to some degree or another; I have...a whole bunch of half-finished drawings and comics and paintings just kinda languishing because I got so mad at them not looking Right and I needed to put them aside for a while. one of the curses of the creative gamut! personally I try to keep in mind:
-> it's a phase. this too shall pass. it's something most artists go through in some fashion and, from my own experience anyway, it's one of those things that just kinda...goes in and out. it sucks to be in it, but it's not permanent, there is another side and you will get past it and back into the drawing groove eventually. 👍👍
-> it's often a sign of improvement! one of the reasons why we get into these 'I swear I used to be able to draw, why does everything suddenly look bad' modes is because we've actually gotten better at art -- it sounds backwards, but chances are that what's actually happening is that your understanding and eye for proportions has improved, and so you're better able to recognize when it isn't right. your technical ability just needs some time to catch up with your mental understanding! (with proportions in particular, if they're feeling off to me but I can't really figure out why, then I try to really hunker down and figure out exactly what the issue is. if I can identify the specific mistakes I'm making, I know what to keep an eye out for going forward.)
-> it is absolutely okay to take breaks. despite what our brains want to tell us, there's no crime in not constantly Being Productive. if something just isn't working, it's totally fine to put it down and not think about it for a while. whether that means going on to something else, or taking a break and not drawing at all for a couple days, or whatever! (the caveat being unless it's paid work that has a deadline, but the solution there tends to be more dependent on the situation...though in my experience most people tend to be pretty understanding and will try to work with you as long as you communicate! "I need a bit more time, can I get back to you by (estimated date)?" goes a long way. ⭐️)
some of this might sound pretty obvious, but I find even just reminding myself of it kinda helps? literally just thinking "actually, I need to put this down and take a break and until this phase passes" does a lot for the ol' mental state! so I hope this helps at least a little; just keep on truckin' (and remember to take breaks) and you'll be on the other side of it soon enough. ❤️❤️❤️