Hi Vietnamese who also live in Vietnam here! Thanks for the post OP. Super glad to see something like this.
True. The smart/nerdy stereotype is so annoying. Iâm only good at English out of every subject (and a bit drawing, I guess) âcause I enjoy stuff in English, not because I like to study. Fuck that. My teachers all tried to make me do my homework and all gave up âcause I still aced their tests without even needing to study. Also, like everyone else, most of my class donât like to study. We study because of our dreams and ambitions for our future. If you want to go with the ambitious Asians, go ahead. Just make sure to be clear that most of us still would rather hang out than study.
My skin is not too light or dark. Most Vietnamese still like their skin fair BUT it is because of this thing. In the old days, rich or royal females didnât have to work on the farm so their skin was light, which has been considered as beauty, even til now. I canât say for other Southeastern countries though. You have to ask those from other countries. All my friends, we have skin tones ranging from as light as that of a white person to as dark as that of Southern Asians.
Yup! Some female Vietnamese names you can use: Anh, HĂ (River!!!), My (Beautiful!!!), Hưƥng (Aroma!!!), Trang, Nhung, Hoa (Flower!!!), Ngáťc (Gem Stone!!!), Nhi, Hấnh, Thảo, Quáťłnh (The Old Guard *winks winks*), Dưƥng (The Sun!!!), and moreee. Some have meanings, and some go with other words to have meanings đ
Male, here are some: Minh, Hiáşżu, Huy, Lᝣi, BĂĄch, Phong (Wind!!!), Thắng (goes with Lᝣi - Thắng Lᝣi - means Victory!!!), An (Safe!!!), Anh (yup, gender neutral, usually depends on the middle name to point out which gender is the nameâs owner, but most overlook this), Lâm, SĆĄn (Mountain!!!), and moreeee!!!
Hell yessss! Most Vietnamese Iâve met are in reasonable weights though. We do know how to stay healthy with vegetables (itâs kinda weird not having vegetables for any meal) but we do eat meat. Kinda a lot too. Though, remember to have characters represent plus sized Asians! God knows one of ny friends almost broke down in tears once seeing an art of a plus sized girl. And not even Asian! Yet she almost broke down to see positive representation of a plus sized girl in drawing.
Chopsticks are super useful to eat! But, spoons are always present in a house! And forks too! And DO NOT with the whole hair in bun with chopsticks! Nope! I use hair ties when I put my hair in a bun. Or sometimes older women use fancy ties or ornaments or whatever they are. Chopsticks donât belong with hair!
Awww yisssss! I, myself, do have some piercings and am intending on getting tattoos later. Half the girls in my class have more than two piercings on the earlobes. And a boy in my class has ear piercings, tongue piercing and a tattoo. A girl had a tattoo. Our parents are still against these (kinda) so weâre keeping things slow.
Also, I would like to say a bit more on myself. I love languages, I love drawing sceneries, I love rock and metal and Broadway, I enjoy writing, reading and all that. I like to think of myself as a punk rocker and would like to go to the Diplomatic Academy of Vietnam. I love cute, fluffy dresses, and I love playing basketball (also, ther jerseys are so comfy wtf!?). My eyes are not like how most people stereotype Asians eyes. They are pretty big and I love them (nothing against those with smaller eyes though - I canât remember the name of that type of eyes, sorry). Iâm also an atheist and I respect your religions.
There, you have it. If anyone wants to write a Vietnamese character, feel free to message me. Idk how Vietnamese people who live their whole lives in other countries are like, but Iâm sure I can help with those who grow up here at least đ