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It's beastiality, not zoophilia.

Its corpse desecration, not necrophile.

"You're being pedantic!" People tell me, even those within mental health movements themselves.

So is it pedantic when people point out that narcissistic is not the same as "egotistical/self-absorbed/emotionally abusive"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that psycho, psychopath, and sociopath aren't the same thing as "criminal/abuser"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that schizophrenic, psychosis, and delusional aren't the same as "quirky/lying to oneself"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that ADHD and autism are not the same as "being quirky"?

Is it pedantic when people point out that low/no empathy/sympathy is not the same thing as "being cruel"?

Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to admit that paraphilic disorders are stigmatized, and that thousands of non-offending paraphiles get demonized by your statements?

Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to recognize that most predators do not have para disorders [link], and that even those who do are predatory because they're bad people, not because of their condition?

When will ya'll admit that you're unwilling to give up the concept of an "evil disorder"?

[PT: Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to admit that paraphilic disorders are stigmatized, and that thousands of non-offending paraphiles get demonized by your statements?

Is it pedantic? Or are you just unwilling to recognize that most predators do not have para disorders [link], and that even those who do are predatory because they're bad people, not because of their condition?

I think it depends on their intentions and that is something no one else can answer but them.

whether or not someone is homophobic depends on whether or not they are homophobic, not what fictional characters they ship or what fanfiction they write or read. like… why do they ship a gay character with a female character? if it’s because they just like the ship and want to have fun, then they just like the ship and want to have fun.

but if they ship a gay character with a female character because they think being gay is wrong, then they are homophobic.

preferring a straight ship for queer characters alone does not make someone homophobic unless that someone is actually homophobic.

the characters are just dolls people play with, and there’s no wrong way for anybody to play with their imaginary characters. so it’s all about the intention of that person.

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