life is elsewhere

Your body is not a bargaining chip. 

Building your own income reduces pressure to accept uncomfortable situations.

That bag will not heal emotional damage. 

Your physical health is worth protecting. 

Your mental health is worth protecting. 

Your sexual health is worth protecting. 

You can find someone you are genuinely attracted to who is also financially stable.

You deserve relationships built on mutual attraction and respect.

You are not required to stay in any situation that makes you emotionally or physically uncomfortable.

There are paths that don't require compromising your values. 

You can rebuild your life at any point.

You are capable of creating your own success. 

The more self-sufficient you become, the less you have to tolerate what doesn’t feel right.

Real security includes emotional safety.

You can pause and reassess instead of committing to something that feels wrong.

Your dignity should have no price tag. 

You are allowed to change your mind when something doesn’t feel right.

Happiness can not be wrapped in a shopping bag. 

Being admired for your possessions is not the same as being valued as a person.

Support systems can help you leave situations that feel unhealthy.

Your body and boundaries deserve full respect in every relationship.

A relationship should not require you to suppress your instincts or feelings.

Travel, hobbies and community can expand your options and perspective.

“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.”

Pleaseeeee!

Clacton is a tourist town - surely someone can see my vision of tacky souvenir shops filled with Binface merch, a Binface attraction on the pier, Binface BINS on the promenade, etc etc THE POSSIBILITIES ARE ENDLESS

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When HE claimed FBI agents had been ushering January 6th rioters into the Capitol, SHE told him directly there was no evidence of that.

When HE insisted the 2024 California elections were being rigged in real time, SHE asked for evidence.

When HE said all he had to do was look, SHE pushed back again: “But that's not evidence," she said, calmly and without flinching.

SHE pressed him on his abandoned $1.8 billion "anti-weaponization" fund, demanding a straight answer on whether he was backing off it completely.

SHE confronted him on the 170 people who pleaded guilty to assaulting police officers on January 6th.

SHE cited his own words back to him on his "no new wars" pledge and refused to accept his attempts to rewrite history.

And HE responded the way he always does when cornered: he called her names, turned an ungodly shade of orange, and stormed off.