menâs loyalty to violence is disturbing. when women want a life free of abuse, assault, threat, & coercion, menâs first suggestion is âlearn to fight back. learn to defend yourselfâ. i donât want my life to be a fight. i donât want to âprove myselfâ through inflicting pain & fear. i donât find violence and physical conflict fulfilling or self-actualising.  theyâre exhausting & dehumanizing
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