ₓ ˚ .   ୭   ˚ ○ ◦ ˚     as always, some triggering content may be present! change any pronouns to better suit your muse(s) needs!     ˚ ◦ ○ ˚   ୧   . ˚ ₓ

PLACES TO KISS .. ( send "reverse" to switch the sender + receiver roles )

sender kisses receiver's knuckles.

sender kisses receiver's cheek.

sender kisses receiver's lips.

sender kisses receiver's palm.

sender kisses receiver's temple.

sender kisses receiver's inner thighs.

sender kisses receiver's hair.

sender kisses receiver's shoulder.

sender kisses receiver's neck.

sender kisses receiver's knees.

sender kisses receiver's stomach.

sender kisses receiver's top of head.

sender kisses receiver's chest.

sender kisses receiver's upper back.

sender kisses receiver's foot.

sender kisses receiver's inner wrists.

sender kisses receiver's nose.

sender kisses receiver's forehead.

sender kisses receiver's fingertips.

sender kisses receiver's shoulder blade.

sender kisses receiver's lower back.

sender kisses receiver's outer thighs.

sender kisses receiver's sternum.

sender kisses receiver's collarbone.

sender kisses receiver's earlobe.

sender kisses receiver's forearm.

sender kisses receiver's chin.

REASONS TO KISS .. ( send "reverse" to switch the sender + receiver roles )

sender kisses receiver to say goodbye.

sender kisses receiver to say hello.

sender kisses receiver to say goodnight.

sender kisses receiver to say good morning.

sender kisses receiver to distract them.

sender kisses receiver to reassure them.

sender kisses receiver to initiate something further.

sender kisses receiver to shut them up.

sender kisses receiver to comfort them.

sender kisses receiver to say i love you.

sender kisses receiver to tease them.

sender kisses receiver to fluster them.

sender kisses receiver to congratulate them.

sender kisses receiver to give into them.

sender kisses receiver to surprise them.

sender kisses receiver to pretend they're in a relationship.

sender kisses receiver to show off for someone else.

sender kisses receiver to wish them luck.

SETTINGS TO KISS .. ( send "reverse" to switch the sender + receiver roles )

sender kisses receiver at a restaurant.

sender kisses receiver in the kitchen.

sender kisses receiver in a pool.

sender kisses receiver at a cafe.

sender kisses receiver at a party.

sender kisses receiver in the bedroom.

sender kisses receiver in a movie theatre.

sender kisses receiver in a car.

sender kisses receiver at a park.

sender kisses receiver in a club.

sender kisses receiver in an alleyway.

sender kisses receiver on the bus or train.

sender kisses receiver in a closet.

sender kisses receiver in a store isle.

sender kisses receiver in a parking lot.

sender kisses receiver in the woods.

sender kisses receiver at school.

sender kisses receiver at the bar.

sender kisses receiver at the beach.

sender kisses receiver in the ocean.

sender kisses receiver in the garage.

sender kisses receiver at work.

sender kisses receiver on a boat.

sender kisses receiver in a theatre.

sender kisses receiver in a tent.

sender kisses receiver in the bathroom.

sender kisses receiver in a motel suite.

sender kisses receiver in a hotel suite.

sender kisses receiver at a cabin.

sender kisses receiver in an office.

sender kisses receiver in the backyard.

sender kisses receiver on the porch.

sender kisses receiver in a secret or hidden place.

not everyone is okay writing certain things, especially complex topics like smut, angst, and violence – and even if they are, they might not be in the mood to write it just that second, or with that character. this doesn’t necessarily mean they never want to write it with you; it just means that if they say, ‘hey, i’m not really feeling it right now,’ then they’re not really feeling it right now … and even if they do say something like ‘hey, i don’t really want to write [INSERT THING HERE] with [CHARACTER NAME(S)], then you should respectfully leave it alone and find something else to talk about.

there is nothing wrong with somebody not being in the mood for something. you wouldn’t want someone forcibly shoving a piece of food that you like, but don’t want right now, down your throat; if you said ‘no thank you,’ you’d expect them to just put down the fork and shrug it off, right? right! – and i know it’s a silly analogy, but if you apply the same logic to a situation where someone doesn’t feel like writing something particular Right That Second, it makes a lot of sense.

so let’s talk about the DO’s and DON’T’s of reacting to somebody (politely and respectfully) declining the thing you want to discuss.

DO :

“that’s okay! we can talk about [THING] some other time, if you’re feeling up to it.”

“hey, that’s fine. we can talk about [DIFFERENT THING] instead.”

“for future reference, do you not want to write [THING] in general, or just not right now? i want to know so i won’t bring it up again if you just don’t like it, period.”

“it’s fine, i like you for more than just writing [THING].”

“of course! your safety / comfort / happiness comes first.”

“thanks for letting me know you aren’t feeling it! you can always tell me if you don’t feel up to doing / writing something.”

DON’T :

“but you like writing [THING] !”

“does this mean you don’t care about me / my character(s)?”

“does this mean you hate our ship?”

“but i saw you writing / plotting [THING] with [OTHER PERSON] !”

“oh, so you don’t want to talk to me anymore?”

“you’re impossible to talk to.”

“if you won’t write [THING], i’ll find somebody who will.”

“this is why people hate plotting with you.”

notice: the ‘do’ category expresses understanding, empathy, and sometimes a polite offer to continue the thought if/when it’s convenient – without pressuring or guilting the other person into feeling like they HAVE to continue it. this encourages, overall, deeper trust and more open communication between you and your partner. the ‘don’t’ category, on the other hand, is hugely accusatory and manipulative – these responses center around heaping guilt or anxiety onto your partner’s shoulders and making them feel like your OOC and/or IC relationship(s) will be compromised or replaced if they fail to obey you.

remember that this is a PARTNERSHIP between you and ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WITH AUTONOMY AND FEELINGS, not just a log with a chatbot set on catering to your every want & need. your roleplay partners have their own lives and their own interests; nobody owes you anything, and nobody should feel like they have to compromise their own safety / comfort just to keep you happy. 

Send “Oh no you DON’T”   to grab my muse by the back of their collar to stop them from doing something stupid

He finally releases his grip on her shirt, stuffing his hand into his pocket to fish out a cigarette and a lighter. He stops mid-way of actually getting a sick before her offer. It takes him a minute, looking back and forth from his hit, and his partner. Idate sighs as if he was disappointed, but his smile says otherwise.

His appendage from behind shifts around to get comfortable, just to wrap around the lower half of her, the fluke setted atop of her lap. One hand is pressed onto the ground to keep him up, the other sits on her left knee, thumb gently rubbing against it as a means to comfort. He's a bit unsure with the movement, making it just a bit awkward.

Send “Oh no you DON’T”   to grab my muse by the back of their collar to stop them from doing something stupid

He finally releases his grip on her shirt, stuffing his hand into his pocket to fish out a cigarette and a lighter. He stops mid-way of actually getting a sick before her offer. It takes him a minute, looking back and forth from his hit, and his partner. Idate sighs as if he was disappointed, but his smile says otherwise.

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