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"We're the normal ones"

Your kink is not my kink and that's okay, SAY IT WITH ME. YOUR KINK IS NOT MY KINK AND THAT'S OKAY

Why do we care so much SO MUCH about what gets someone off? 🤨 idk guys that kinda weird.. Hot take?

▸ I DONT CONDONE ANY HARASSMENT TOWARDS ANYONE THAT IS POSTED TO THIS PAGE, ANTI OR NOT.

What is it with antis immediately thinking about being indecent with minors?

(Also iyk who the creator of this image is please drop the @)

You are not helping ANYBODY. You are just gumming up the system and making it harder for the authorities to catch the people hurting real children.

I need people to stop putting their Dni on the most hard to read background with a hard to read font… (this is mainly for Rentry/Carrd dnis.) How am I supposed to know if you don’t want my horrible sebaciel enjoyer + proship self to interact with you…

also can we stop with the “basic dni criteria” stuff it’s tiring to try and figure what someone means by that.

"Illegal ships"

"CP"

"Grape"

"Actually, we antis care for the victims!"

"Ao3 hosts vCSAM!"

It's really sad to see people hide things that they once thought were worth showing to others.

Ever since COVID hit (at least this is how I experienced it) fandoms grew more unbearable to partake in.

People, who, more often than not, don't make art themselves and just engage with it (sometimes they don't even, no like nor comment from them) started making up reasons as to why certain kinds of thing to do on the internet are bad for you or for others etc.

But expressing scary or strange thoughs and opinions should not be punished. Thoughts like these should start conversations not smear campaigns. Humans have scary or strange thoughs. That's normal. And expressing them creatively shows others they are not alone in feeling a certain way and helping them feel connected and understood, helping them work through them.

And while I am all for proship and profic and anti censorship what I think is also really important to remember is being human and remembering that those on "the other side" are also human. Insecure, unhealthy, scared, hostile - but still human.

This is not just about being profiction or proship but, well, there's no label for people who think anti-harassment should be about things beyond fiction. Like— not all of the things I care about that are "controversial" are fictional.

It's important to be able to show sympathy towards those who did all the wrong things so they could learn how to do things the right way. This cannot happen if people are scared of being seen as monsters.

And so I want this post to encourage people to post about (the title says make art but it's not just that) things that they think others might find disturbing, strange, gross, mentally ill - whatever you've seen others say about similar things or projects. It might backfire but it also might do the thing that's supposed to happen - it might start a conversation.

Historically bad times always start with censorship (and self-censorship or censorship within the community) coming for human expression of the taboo and complex, morally grey thoughts, helping to set people against each other.

And it is important that fandoms have a place for people that have these thoughts because otherwise it's not going to end well.

"I'm a minor and I can consent-"

No! You! Can't!

You don't understand or grasp the complexity of what it means to consent to sexual acts.

Sex/sexual acts isn't some fun adult activity that you'll be some "cOoL bAd AsS" for if you do it.

It chemically and physically changes you.

Especially when it's rape

Especially when it happens to you as a kid.

CSA victims go through puberty earlier than their non abused peers.

Source: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1054139X16303524

They also develop a myriad of other disorders such as

.CPTSD

. BPD

. Anxiety

. Depression

. Eating disorders

. Fibromyalgia

And more!

Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/protecting-children-from-sexual-abuse/202105/the-long-lasting-consequences-of-child-sexual

Consenting isn't just saying yes. It's understanding what is at stake and who you are consenting to.

Grown ass adults shouldn't be hitting up kids asking for sex, regardless of if they're 9 or 17.

Hell 18 and 19 too. Y'all need the time and space to let your minds catch up and grow, and shouldn't be bombarded by older 20-40yos for sex the minute you "bEcOmE lEgAl-".