My actual pet peeve is Authors having to put disclaimers prefacing their novels about what the book is or isn't. Authors should be allowed to tell their stories and have the readers think, feel and reflect all on their own. These things shouldn't be spoon-fed or dictated.
You don't write a Horror Erotica and then have to tell your readers that it isn't a Romance. No, actually, it doesn't matter the genre. I hate it because it clearly stems from fear of backlash due to Purity Culture. Especially when it is Dark Romance or Erotica. You don't owe your readers anything. Not an explanation or a disclaimer.
God. I miss it when we used to read books bravely.
I say this because when we looked through the books on the shelves, we didn't look for Trigger Warnings. We went to the shelves labeled with the Genres we loved. We browsed, we read through the synopses. Then, we went in with nothing but concept and came out in various states of beingâbroken, in love, bothered, changed.
We didn't police Authors. We didn't require Trigger Warnings. We didn't read the Genres we didn't like and left it at that. We didn't tell Authors and Readers what they should or shouldn't romanticize.
Romanticism doesn't even equal love. Romanticism used to refer to literature that prioritized emotion, individualism, nature, and the supernatural over order and logic. It celebrated the "common man," intuition, and the untamed beauty of the natural world.
You're supposed to be disturbed. You're supposed to be bothered. You're supposed to find beauty in the grotesque. You're supposed to be shameless about sexuality, even if the thing you're sexualizing is the horror.
You little sheltered fucks should learn that the world shouldn't cater to your sensitivities. You're supposed to fucking rawdog the world and get fucked by it real bad you go through a constant state of flux. You're supposed to learn.
To live is to feel all kinds of things.
And if you can't do that?
Stop fucking telling people they shouldn't.
Because you're the coward. But the rest of the world doesn't have to be.
















