Queer Wanderer

i feel like people who dont like furries are the same kind of people that dont like people that like anime: they don't know shit, they're just going off the collective perception of "oh this is weird" without actually thinking anything.

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I went out with 3 of my friends today. I found a place that claimed to have wheelchair accessible walks, and we went off the path, and my wheelchair got stuck a thousand times.

I went to a carnival with my friends the other day, and even though my shoulder was dislocated all of them were willing to push me wherever we went, and when they went on the rides I couldn't go on, I sat and took pictures of them so we could all remember the day. I bought cheesy dinosaur shirts and we all found matching cow shirts. We went through the fair and found little Lego sets that we all loved, and when I got overwhelmed all of them were willing to find a quiet spot to sit and relax in. Even when I started having a tic attack, we left very quickly and got pizza.

I bought a house with my partner. I am allowed to paint the walls exactly the way I want them painted, in exactly the order I want them painted. I put up the painter's tape myself and I pull it down (so satisfying). I decide if the walls need another coat or if a spot needs touching up, and I am not shamed or berated for my "pickiness". In fact, my partner walks in and says "wow, it looks amazing in here. Great job, handsome." He does not touch me when I am sweaty and sore, but waits until I have had my shower and come back to myself.

I now live in a place where there is no screaming or yelling. I no longer walk on eggshells by simply existing in my own home. There is no more pressure on me to sacrifice my limited energy to do more because there is no desperate need for me to escape.

had to share @rykhafirehand ’s tags:

i’d like to add: you are SUPPOSED TO HAVE DISPOSABLE INCOME.

One of the ramshackle cottages near the centre of the community is covered inside and out by some unidentifiable fleshy growth, all gnarled pulsing veins and staring inhuman eyes. Their name is Leslie, and they’re a valued member of the community; the closest anyone comes to acknowledging that anything unusual is going on is when you’re asked to donate food for Leslie’s pantry because, you know, they don’t get out of the house much these days, the poor dear.

That post about death note being "everyone's first anime" (untrue statement) made me curious and now I want to gather data for science

Yall wanna be gnc and androgynous but hate intersex people and the idea of being intersex so much, I remember reading about PCOS potentially being considered an intersex disorder and having 100s of people dismiss it because "we can't just be calling 1 in 10 women intersex" or being in transmasc spaces and constantly being told that bottom growth and T dicks are undesirable and that people find non standard genetalia gross, in a GENDER INCLUSIVE SPACE.