a basic guide to kin,Ā ālinkers, and more
TW // UNCENSORED MENTIONS OF S//CIDE, M//RDER, AND D//EATH.
Before we start, just a preface. this is NOT A DISCOURSE POST. I donāt care if you think someone elseās personal belief is stupid. If someone believing they were a fictional character in a past life just makes you THAT angry, maybe you should idk. talk to an anger management counselor?Ā
I DO NOT CONDONE THE PEOPLE THAT STEAL DID TERMS AND CALL THEM KIN TERMS. IF ANY TERM I USE IN THIS POST IS A DID TERM, PLEASE LET ME KNOW SO I CAN CORRECT MY ERROR AND USE THE CORRECT TERMS!
I am personally fiction-kin. This means that i believe that I was a fictional character in a past life. Thatās it! Thatās really all there is to it. There are infinite possibilities for people to believe in, as we genuinely have no clue what happens before or after death. Its like any other belief someone may have, itās just been designated as cringe and stupid.Ā
ID:Ā Stands for identity! This is a word for the kins you identify as the most, whether you believe them to be more recent lives, or whether you just feel much more connected to them, this is the term to use! USE THIS OR PERMASHIFT INSTEAD OFĀ āSELFHOOD,ā AS THAT TERM IS USUALLY USED FOR DID.
Kin: People who are kin come in two forms: Spiritual, and Psychological. Spiritual kin believe in reincarnation, and that they were one of their kintypes in a past life. Psychological kins however, believe that they really are that character. This type of kin encapsulates everything that is NOT a spiritual belief, whatever that may be, they fall under this category.
Kin-Shift: a kinshift is simply defined as when you feel much more connected to that particular kintype than usual! Psychological shifts are the most common, in which you begin to think and act a little bit more like the kintype you are shifted as at the moment. Phantom shifts are when you feel as if you are missing a body part/limb that one of your kintypes has. These are called astral limbs! Not to be confused with phantom limbs, which is a term used for amputees. PHANTOM LIMBS CAN BE SCIENTIFICALLY EXPLAINED, ASTRAL LIMBS CANNOT. This is kind of a no-brainer, but anyone who claims to be able toĀ āphysically shiftā is duping you. The physical strain that would put on the body would quite literally kill you.
Kintype:Ā Someones kintype is the character, animal, or mythological creature they are kin with! This is the correct terminology in the sentenceĀ āMy kintype is Nagito Komaeda!ā orĀ āOne of my kintypes is a cat.āĀ
Permashift: Similar to ID, this is a kintype that you tend to be in shift as for more than just a couple hours. This could be for days, weeks, or even months. AS STATED FOR ID, PLEASE USE THIS TERM IN PLACE OF SELFHOOD.Ā
Co-Shift: A co-shift is basically what it sounds like, it is when you experience more than one kinshift at once. Not much more to it! DO NOT CONFUSE THIS TERM WITH THE DID TERM CO-CON. THE TERM IS NOT INTENDED TO MIMIC, MOCK, OR STEAL THIS TERM.
Otherkin: People are under the otherkin umbrella are people who are kin with animals, fictional characters, mythological creatures, or anything else. Some distinctions that can be found under this are; Fictionkin, Plantkin, Godkin, Lionkin, Catkin, etc.Ā
Kin mem/memory: A kin memory is a phenomena in which people who are spiritually kin will experience memories from one of their past lives. This can come thru a distinct feeling of deja vu, a flashback type moment, or a vivid dream that seems to coherent and fits into your canon too well to be just an ordinary dream. Psychological kins may experience kin mems as well, however i am not as versed in that so i am not the person to ask on that matter.
Kinsider: When you are determining whether a character, creature, being, or etc. is a kintype or not.
Synpath: A synpath is what mostĀ ānew wave kinniesā mistake for being genuinely kin.This is a character that you sympathize with on a heavy level, and feel like you identify WITH them. You heavily relate to this character, and can see yourself in them. THISĀ IS NOT KIN. Having a synpath is perfectly fine. ITS FINE NOT TO BE KIN.
Linktypes: AĀ ālink is the voluntary way to be kin. People whoĀ ālink identify as the entity theyāreĀ ālinking with for fun, coping, or any other reason.Ā ālinkers can experience mems, shifts, and everything else. The major distinction is thatĀ ālinks are voluntary for whatever reason, while being kin IS NOT.
Fictionhearted/Hearttypes/Kithtypes/Fictionkith: Being fictionhearted is very often confused with being fictionkin to the untrained eye, however there are some fundamental differences. The two communities developed separately, and therefore have separate core ideas that categorize you as one or the other. Otherhearted means that you have a strong connection to the species specified, in the way that you feel as if they are your friends or family WITHOUT identifying spiritually or psychologically as these species. Hearttypes are characters/species that you identify WITH, but not AS. For example, someone that has Mikan Tsumiki as a hearttype would identify WITH her. When looking at her, there would be a distinct feeling of,Ā āthis is me,ā orĀ āthis is what Iām supposed to be.ā Fictionkith is just another word for the same thing! (Please correct me if Iām wrong, there arenāt many sources about the topic. If any fictionkith/fictionhearted people want to talk about their experience in the replies, please go for it! Iād love to hear more.)
Fictionflicker: Flickers are basically what the name implies, kintypes that arenāt permanent. Your kintype may be a flicker if, once you start to distance yourself from the source, it starts toĀ āfade away.ā Fictionflicker has a nearly identical dichotomy to being kin, but they eventually fade away. Kin mems, kin-shifts, and everything else occurs for them too!Ā
Factkin: Despite what people may tell you, people who are factkin are crossing a line that should not be crossed. It is identity theft to identify as a real living person, and disrespectful to identify as people who have passed. If you are factkin, I recommend looking into identity theft, talking to a therapist, and re-evaluating your beliefs. People who are factkin are genuinely harmful.
DO NOT SAYĀ āSWITCHINGā ORĀ āFRONTINGā WHEN REFERRINGĀ TO A KINSHIFT. THIS IS ACTIVELY STEALING DID TERMS, AND RE-PURPOSINGĀ TERMS FROM A REAL MENTAL DISORDER AND MAKING THEM A PART OF YOUR BELIEF.Ā
āKINNINGā IS NOT THE CORRECT TERMINOLOGY. THIS WAS CREATED BY PEOPLE WHO ARE ANTI-KIN TO DEMEAN THE MEANING OF BEING KIN, AND THE IDENTITY THAT COMES WITH IT.
WHILEĀ āKINNIEā IS AN INSULT, IT IS NOT AND NEVER WILL BE A SLUR. STOP TREATING IT LIKE IT IS ONE. DONāT SAY IT IF THE RECEIVING PARTY ISNāT COMFORTABLE WITH IT, BUT ITS LIKEĀ EVERY OTHER PLAY INSULT. STOP IT.
STOP TELLING FICTIVES OR PEOPLE THAT HAVE GENUINE DELUSIONS THAT THEY ARE JUST KIN, OR ARE LESS VALID THAN YOU. THAT IS GENUINELY ABLEIST JUST FUCKING STOP.
IF YOU GENUINELY BELIEVE YOU CAN EVENTUALLY BE, OR ARE PHYSICALLY THE CHARACTER/ANIMAL, PLEASE SEEK MEDICAL HELP. THESE MAY BE SYMPTOMS OF CLINICAL LYCANTHROPY. ALTER-HUMAN/KIN COMMUNITIES CANNOT HELP YOU WITH THESE SYMPTOMS.
BEING KIN IS NOT ALWAYS SUNSHINE AND RAINBOWS/TALKING ABOUT THE DOWNSIDES, AND DEBUNKING COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS:
Despite what new wave kins want you to believe, being kin isnāt always fun. For people that are genuinely kin, people will insult them, theyāll get horrendous kin mems, and no one will believe what theyāre saying just because theyāre kin. People spread misinformation constantly, saying that we believe weāreĀ ātrans-species,ā and making us out to be like theĀ ātrans-racialā orĀ ātrans-disabled communities. This notion has been so popularized by anti-kin that itās even made its way onto the official Wiktionary page, in which it states that kin believe theyāreĀ ātrans-species.ā This is not true, and was originally popularized here on tumblr by anti-kin/satire blogs trying to make us all look like transphobic idiots. People who are kin do not believe that they are, or can be, the character/animal they identify as. People who do SHOULD NOT be classified as kin, as that is usually delusions. CALLING PEOPLE WITH DELUSIONS KIN IS ABLEIST, AND BUILDS MORE OF A STIGMA AROUND PEOPLE WITH DELUSIONS. Insults can include calling us annoying or stupid,Ā ākinnies,ā comparing us to people with genuine delusions (which is more spreading disinformation and insulting to people with delusions,) saying that weāre lying or invalid because they donāt personally hold the belief, etc. Anti-kin like to generalize as well, and lump in harmless kin that just want to have fun with factkin, people who steal DID terms, and people who harass others over kin drama. Kin just want to be let be, and be allowed to have fun in peace. STOP DERAILING POSITIVITY POSTS JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS STUPID, OR YOU DONāT BELIEVE IN IT. THE POST ISNāT WELCOMING DISCOURSE, AND YOUāRE JUST BEING AN ASSHOLE. On to kin mems, these can be awful and extremely hard to deal with. People who are kin from Danganronpa could get mems of their own executions or murders, people who are otherkin could get kin mems of being hunted or poached, and people who are kin from DDLC could get kin mems of their suicides. Whether you think theyāre fake or not, these people are genuinely feeling like they are reliving their own death. Please, just stop making fun of peoples kin mems when theyāre doing nothing wrong.
Some pages I used as refrence, which are just general good resources: Toko.Mango on Instagram, the otherkin fandom wiki, miviele.kins on Instagram, and some personal experience as well as experiences from fictionkin friends.
PLEASE feel free to add on to this post! This is just a starter guide, intended to give a base to start from when finding out about kin communities!