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Many wives, like mine, will spank you if you ask, after explaining your desire to be spanked. (This might take a few years, as some might find it too extreme and too kinky)

However, requesting a real spanking, where you end up crying and the spanking does not stop until your wife decides eventually, will probably never happen.

Cindy always stops when I appear to be in distress, which is precisley when I wish she kept spanking.

Her spanknigs have gotten much harder in the last year, so maybe thismight still happen

I would be game once, but being given a real s panking once, all future spankings might just be as REAL, or worse.

My husband was doing all the house stuff and chores whole friday and I went out with my female friend for a few drinks 😊

Saturday morning he did my nails and ironing...

Later that day, his parents came by, and my mother-in-law noticed how tidy and sparkling the house was. She said that I am a really good and hardworking wife, and both my husband and I chuckled 😂

I’ve listed what i consider to be the 10 most positive things you can gain from Chastity or any form of long term or forced denial.

It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It should not be wasted on him touching himself and thinking about other women. As long as he can masturbate, he is psychologically cheating on you - and lying to you by default. Even if your man is only thinking about you when he has fun alone he is lowering his testosterone which should be built up so he can please you better and more frequently.                              

Your sex life will improve. Because he’ll have to please you in order to get his release, he’ll become a more experimental and better lover. You will have more orgasms and more massages  per week than you’ve ever had before.                         

Your relationship will become stronger. Male chastity encourages open and honest communication about each others needs. This is an incredible benefit for any couple, and forced denial can help any couple improve their natural bonding not to mention will make him more attentive, passionate and caring.                                                                               

His orgasms will improve. As long as he can masturbate regularly, he is taking action that desensitizes his penis. Once he is on a more normal ejaculation schedule, his penis will become more sensitive and his orgasms will become stronger, usually he will last longer in bed too because cumming alone they do it in a few minutes and get used to that, after chastity I’ve seen men that could only go 5 minutes last a half hour after some training being locked up, this does not apply to all men but I’ve definitely seen mens duration improve from denial.                                                           

You’ll never have to worry about him cheating on you. Face it - most men, no matter how much they love their girlfriends, can’t turn down an opportunity with another woman you’re likely never to find out about. Male chastity makes it impossible for him to act on these urges, this enforced that he remain faithful. This is perfect if you’re in a long distance relationship it also ensures he stays locked up thinking about you for days at a time eager to please.                                                               

The romance will improve in your relationship. As long as he knows he can have cum any time he wants, there’s no reason for him to romance you. That’s why the romance stopped after awhile. By limiting his sexual access to you, you’ll train him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating.                                                                                           

You’ll never have to put effort into pleasing him ( blowjobs, handjobs ). Of course, you can if you want to; but he’ll be quite happy with any sort of release / stimulation, you could give him a single lick and he would thank you for it ( well, he better ;)  its good to use these things against him, teasing is just as important as denial. they go hand in hand.                                        

Your friends will compliment you on what a wonderful, attentive boyfriend you have. They will be jealous of your strong, committed relationship. No man is as ideal as one constantly denied.                        

He’ll become much more helpful around the house. Knowing that the only way he can get the release his body craves so badly is by pleasing you, he’ll actually volunteer to do the dishes, clean the bathroom and make the bed every morning. Won’t that be nice?                                                       

He’ll feel better about himself. Most men are ashamed that they masturbate so often (usually seven to 15 times a weeks!). But, they are slaves to their libido and can’t help themselves. It’s an addiction. Mostly it makes them feel like little boys who can’t control themselves. Once he no longer is able to give into the temptation to masturbate, he’ll feel proud of his self-control and behave more like a man who releases his sexuality into his girlfriend, instead of down the shower drain.

In summary, you will get a lot more pleasure in any way you want, and he will be stuck in a state of arousal that keeps him addicted to you more then he could have been before, he will do more chores, he will be more attentive, passionate, loving, last longer, be eager to please you, and will never cheat.

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If you agree with this list then please reblog so more couples are better informed and can seriously consider exploring chastity / forced denial

Just remember to keep it Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Yours truly, 

-Tatiana xoxo     http://maleslaveswanted.tumblr.com/ 

🙌Understanding Her Untapped Dominance

Many submissive men mistakenly assume their partners are “vanilla” or disinterested in power dynamics simply because their wives don’t immediately embrace dominance. However, this misconception stems from societal conditioning and the inherent fear of exposing an unconventional sexual or relational need.

❤️The Attraction to Dominant Women

Submissive men rarely marry women who are genuinely submissive or “vanilla.” Instead, they are naturally drawn to women with strength, confidence, and subtle authority. Despite this, many women do not recognize their dominant potential due to societal expectations that prioritize male leadership and discourage female assertiveness in relationships . Women often internalize the idea that dominance in relationships is “unnatural” or “wrong,” leaving their own desires and power unexplored .

❤️The Impact of Kink-Shaming and Miscommunication

When a submissive husband expresses his desires for an FLR or D/s dynamic, it can be overwhelming for his partner. Society often labels such interests as perverted or deviant, causing women to shut down or reject the idea entirely . This response doesn’t stem from disinterest but rather a lack of understanding and cultural conditioning that dominance must align with extreme stereotypes—whips, leather, and rigid personas .

❤️Awaking Her Inner Dominance

Dominance is not about adopting a costume or performing an archetype; it is about embracing power and confidence in one’s natural personality. To cultivate this within your wife:

1.Stop Framing It as a Favor to You: Approach your desires not as something she needs to “do for you” but as an opportunity for her to explore her own needs and authority. This aligns with a service-oriented model that prioritizes her comfort and growth.

2.Shift the Focus to Her Desires: Introduce subtle acts of service without expectation. Fulfill her needs in daily life—be it cooking, cleaning, or massages—without framing it in explicitly submissive terms initially. This will show her the benefits of your submission as a lifestyle rather than a one-time indulgence.

3.Educate Without Overwhelming: Introduce resources gently. Suggest books or articles on female-led relationships that highlight mutual fulfillment and emotional connection. Avoid inundating her with fetish-heavy material that might reinforce stereotypes .

4.Encourage Confidence, Not Pressure: Building dominance takes time. Allow her to explore the dynamic at her own pace without expecting immediate results. Celebrate her moments of leadership, no matter how small, and reinforce her decisions with gratitude and admiration.

5.Offer Emotional Safety: Make her feel secure in experimenting with this lifestyle. Let her know that mistakes are okay and that you are committed to her, regardless of the outcome. Fear of failure or rejection can often hold women back from embracing their dominant side fully.

❤️Embracing the Transformation

When approached correctly, a “vanilla” wife can awaken to her inner dominance. With patience, understanding, and selfless dedication, you will likely find that she is not only capable of leadership but thrives in it. Society may have silenced her dominant voice, but with your support, she can uncover and celebrate her natural authority, transforming both her life and your relationship into one of mutual empowerment and deep satisfaction.