You need to be spanked!

Cindy has for the most part accepted the idea of spanking me, and to keep spanking frequently, until a behaviuor she dislikes disappears. This is totally new for us.

I have a bad tendency of saying: "you should have done...." and she wants me to think before I speak, and choose a nicer way of saying a suggestion than you SHOULD HAVE.

Normally, spankings are on the spot, but not frequently, and only when she is upset about something I have done, or that stress over time has me asking for a spanking. 

Ccurrently it is "tough love"

Thr bath brush has been used each time, and having been spanked two days in a row significantly (Sunday and Monday), I was much better on Tuesday. Unfortunately, I used the "should have done" expression today, so will be spanked before dinner.

My bottom is still sore from the two days of spanking; so we shall see if I can actually learn to think before speaking, or will another spanking be needed after today.

Today's spanking has occured, and it was significant.Bare bottom, raised  by two pillows, at the corner of the bed. The corner means that my legs are spread quite wide, one on each side of teh corner as far apart as possible. Cindy used the tawse, and it reached inside the crease between the buttocks at times, but also was used significantly where the bottom reaches the top of the legs, and simply further down the top of the back of the legs also. (visited frequently during this spanking) No warm-up was given, just very strong spanks from start to finish. It was extremely effective, with a pause in the middle to review why I was being spanked, but also so Cindy could regain her breath to begin a second round of totally strong spanks.

Not my bottom, but very similar markings except they also went lower.                                                                 A question: Have spankings worked for you to stop a specific behavior?

thought for today

bottoms up

RED

There is no secret in your wife's family, nor with your family, that your wife spanks you. They however, had never seen it happening. Until NOW

not only her sisters, but her mother and a couple of friends

they certainly enjoyed the entertainment

and they thoroughly enjoyed watching!

She likes you, and you like her, but she does not put up with grumpiness or misbehavior. You learned this early in the relationship, and have chosen to continue the relationship.

You are learning that even when you feel she is wrong and you are right, the spanking you are about to receive will be very painful, and you do not want it to be worse! Thus, you accept being spanked

This video shows a really relaxed spanker giving a excellent spanking.

The latest woman in the neighborhood to know you are spanked has never been shy. She was quite determined to see you be spanked, so decided to help speed the idea along. She knew that he always drove a bit fast, and sometimes did not stop at a red light and simply turned right with some speed.

Expressing these worries that someone might get hurt, especially a little child, and asking her neighbor to speak to her husband. As her h usband was in the den watching sports, she asked her friend to stay while she talked with her husband and solved the problem.

The wife called out to her husband to please get her hair brush for her, and then come here. The husband was shocked by the request, and flummoxed when he saw the neighbor.

The wife simply stated: I have just heard about you not stopping when turning on a red light, so bare your bottom and get over my knee, and our neighbor here will see that the problem has been dealt with.

and after the spanking, before he was allowed to stand in the corner, he was told that if she ever sees you do it again, she will spank you first, and then I will spank you also!

This brought a big smile to your neighbors face.

Having read my friend's blog, [www.ronniesoul.blogspot.com] called Heart and Soul (a link is on the side) of my blog, I was delighted to see a coy photo of her bare bottom and P's hand.

This made me wonder if others take photos after being spanked!

I have had Cindy take a photo or two of my very red bottom, throughout the years. As we age, my bottom changes somewhat, and the red is much stronger than it ever used to be when we first started spanking.  As a joke I can say it is because the iphone camera is far better than any camera I previously owned, but in reality it is also because Cindy spanks so much harder and longer. (which is what I requested so as to be effective)

If you do take photos, where do you store them?

I have mine buried in documents, inside about fifteen or more subfolders. There are about twenty folders to start, so to find them one would have to open the correct folder, then choose from another ten folders the correct one, and having multiple choices along the way, and keep opening folders in the right sequence, until getting there. 

How or where do you keep photos?

Here is one of my bottom after a spanking at a spanking party in I believe in August 2009, in the Catskills. The only spanking party we ever attended. 

I thought it was to be fun spankings, and it started that way with my first spanking the night before (the woman asked if I wanted play or real- I said play and that was what was given), but the next morning this one woman (in my humble opinion) was wanting to punish severely and break any man, and thus a contest of wills! Sad! Some men were hobbling around in great pain when the weekend was ending, whereas others were fine, because they had recognized who they would let spank them, and who they would not permit to spank them. I had severe bruising from this one spanking that lasted a couple of weeks, at what was supposedly a fun spanking party.

which a few days later was

The couple that ran the party were very nice, and I am sorry I have lost their contact information. If you are one of them actually reading this, or attended this party, send me a note please, so we can reconnect.

bottoms up

Red

Now two friends know, and have seen you spank your husband. This is too juicy a topic for them not to share with others.

She spanks him, and I have seen her do it!

So that is why he is always so cooperative and polite. I knew him before they were married, and that would not be how I would ever have thought to describe him!

And he lets her, and he let you and Jane watch?

He started to object, and was asked if he wanted them to spank him afterwards, he immediately responded no dear, they can watch if you want.

Maybe we should have her give us information of how this came about...

I can just picture her spanking him

and I would love to see it!

She stated that the evening had been pleasant, and you can take me out again on Friday evening. You were thrilled, but also a tad worried.

On Friday evening, she said we would be eating in tonight, as I like to cook. Let us sit and chat over a drink first.

Wow! You were enchanted by her, and could not do anything except sputter that is not at all a good idea. She responded that you do not have achoice, that she makes the decisions. Dinner was delicious!

She said she wanted to change into something more comfortable, and left you to determine what that was. When she eventually returned with a paddle, you knew ! Bare your bottom and get over my knees.

as frightened as you were, your physical attraction of being over her knee, bare bottomed, meant you were lying over her bare knees with your bare cock on her skin.

The spanking became much more vigorous, and your erection faded!

She had seen you glancing at her, but always turning away quickly when your eyes met. She likes always being in charge, and you looked as a very attractive option to date.

Taking charge, she walked over to you and said that " we should have a date on Friday, and you can take me to dinner". You stammered how that would be lovely, and it was arranged.

The dinner was wonderful , and she was dressed so provocatively that you kept stealing a look at her breasts and nipples! When your eyes next met, she asked if you like what you saw? Your fumbled response of what, I was just thinking of something, excuse me, had her smile as a reaction.

When standing outside her partment building, she bridged the topic, fully knowing the answer.

You meekly said yes. thank you for asking me for a date, as I am very shy, and I would love to date you often!

and my last question I asked?

Stammering, you said yes, if you think it is needed.

Your wife spanks you when needed, but it was secret from family and friends. However, she also spanks you immediately sometimes, known as on the spot spankings.

This appears to be an unexpected reveal, as your daughter has come home early from school, as both your wife and you had forgotten it was a early release day.

However, this did not stop your wife from continuing your spanking! However, she did pause to say to your daughter that she can stay and watch, and I will explain later while your father is standing in the corner with his red bottom on display.

Your daughter said she would watch, much to your chagrin.

and then the conversation started that you always feared.