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This post has links to some of the more commonly asked questions about how we got started, how things developed for us, and what our life is like.
How does Tom handle being locked up for so long?
Who's idea was it?
How does your husband keep you satisfied?
Does he really keep you satisfied that way?
How did you become comfortable with this?
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Reading your post with Ms Donna, I have no doubt all us caged husbands filled any space that was left in our cages reading your twos conversation. I shared it with my wife, she doesn't think she could push it to the limits you two have, but I enjoy the tease of her seeing you guys. She actually admitted that she feels too sorry for me after a while. I'll be honest, permanent scares me, but it is one hell of a turn on. If my wife decides to make it permanent, I will support her and accept it. I absolutely love being caged for my wife and pleasing her, but I enjoy the short breaks she gives me, and after a week of being caged, penetration feels so much better and exciting than the old way most couples do it. I make her breakfast in bed almost every morning before I go to work. Spoiling her is something I love, caged or not.
We have the Vixskin Bandit. My wife has never come from penetration, but I was able to make it happen one time with the Bandit and it was wonderful for both of us. But she is very hesitant to relax and enjoy it. It's almost like she feels guilty that it isn't actually me, even though she can't come with penetration any other way. She comes with me going down but penetration no. So, the one time I was able to get her to come with the Vixskin, I thought that would do it for her to want do many repeats, but no. It's ok with me if that's her decision but I know she deserves this if she can find a way to get past her hurdle with it. We haven't had the vixskin out for a while. I asked her if she wanted me to throw it away and she said no, not yet. Yes, I warm it before use.
At our age, my libido is just as strong, but it takes 3 to 4 days now to get back my strong libido. The cage works wonders with this, and her libido is less now too. We are almost 60. I love how she feels to my touch when my senses build after a few days locked, there is nothing that compares to that holding her. The cage makes her feel absolutely delicious and no way she doesn't notice the difference.
I am curious, is part of the lure to your permanent chastity decisions for your marriage have anything to do with the change it makes in your husband's touch? The best way I can explain it as a husband, it just makes me absolutely melt for my wife.
I will share this and any response if you give one with her. I enjoy your blog, and anytime she shares a meme with me it is one of yours. You guys have definitely had an impact on this life choice with couples, and I appreciate your more conservative use with it and not off the deep end. It is a wonderful choice for couples who want to avoid the staleness that so many couples just accept after many years together. I love loving on her and every day with her feels like it did when we were young, that blows having releases any given day.
First, Thank you for the lovely compliment. I think we do try to portray thw reality of our relationship without introducing a lot of the mote extreme stuff. Before I have my husband answer this, I just want to mention that I have always locked him for long terms, like weeks to months at a time, and when I unlocked him all I remember is that he was definitely very sensitive, and always very aroused.
About the Vixskin... Orgasm from penetration is hit or miss for a lot of women, and ironically many of us have a hard time relaxing into it because half the time we are wondering if it's going to happen. I have chatted with a few women who were more consistent when their husbands were foxing them, but it makes me wonder if knowing their husband is locked means that they can relax more and not worry about what he is doing.
I'd say try not to pressure her into using it. Just occasionally let her know how much you enjoyed it, and that you were happy to bring her such pleasure with it, and then let her think about it on her own.
It's hard to answer your question about making it permanent for my husband because quite honestly, I have been locking him for so long that I really don't remember what he was like when he wasn't locked. He is (almost 😂) always pleasant, helpful, loving, and attentive. I'm sure that much of it is his constant arousal, but I really don't think too deeply about that... I just enjoy it.
🔏 Tom here. I'm not quite understanding what you mean by melting at her touch. In fact, since I'm always operating at a low simmer of arousal, I'd say that I am usually getting harder 😉.
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Hi Mrs Edge. You and I used to chat a few years ago before Tumblr banned my blog. Really, I just signed up again so I could read your blog lol!
Since we last chatted I made the decision to keep my own husband "penetration free." He has been in chastity for maybe eight or nine years and quite frankly, as you probably noticed yourself, the longer you leave them caged the more it messes with their ability to last in bed. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed the toys and having him go down on me, but I also enjoy getting fucked, so I took your advice and ordered a Vixskin Ranger like yours. Within a month I decided that my husband would no longer have "pussy privileges."
Unlike some of the other women that have written in to you, I really did not feel guilty about this. I've always been a bit on the dominant side and my husband has always been willing to follow my lead. I explained to him that he gives me a lot more pleasure wearing his replacement cock, and the caged one just is way too out of practice now. I told him that regular sex with him was just not pleasurable enough for me because of how long (or not!) he lasted and my needing to clean up after. And yes, I also told him that the Ranger is bigger which was also a factor in my decision. So like with you and your husband, only the Ranger will have pussy privileges - his own dick will be penetration free.
Yes, I understand that he was upset by this for a while. He felt sexually frustrated (hah! so did I!) but he also felt embarrassed that he could no longer last long enough for me. Worse, he realized that this was his fantasy - well, at least part of it, since he begged me to be more of a dominatrix in the bedroom. But he also saw that wearing the "replacement" gave me a lot of satisfaction and he learned how to use it really well. Eventually he got over not being allowed pussy privileges anymore, and now he feels proud that he can wear me out.
I have not decided - yet - to keep him caged permanently. Right now I am unlocking him monthly and giving him a quick hand job. I read a comment from your husband on another post that said something about wearing latex gloves so that it would be a reminder to him that he no longer gets to feel me. I'm planning to try that to see how that works out. As long as he gets to come he may not even care. You know how men are lol!
The truth is that I could unlock my husband and let him fuck me, but the feeling of being in control of such a basic male thing is a huge power trip for me. I love my husband very much, and I know that he loves me. This is just one aspect of our relationship that just happened to work out in an unconventional way.
To any of the women reading this who feel guilty about denying their husbands, I just want to say that it's important to check in with your husbands, but it's also important to be firm with them. They WANT to please you, they really do! Yes, they miss activity with their dicks, but you can figure out ways around that. Or not - apparently Mrs Edge here never touches her husband at all, and they seem to have an amazing relationship!
Thanks for letting me tell my story here. And as I told you in the DM, I'm posting this anonymously because I'm tired of the pervs sending me messages.
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Hi Ms Donna, it's nice to hear from you again. I remember some of our chats and trying to explain to you why I didn't feel that the way I denied Tom was too extreme. I guess somehow I got into the mindset that the Vixskin was "him" and so it never felt to me that he was denied penetration... and Tom never really said anything about feeling denied that way, so I've just never really looked at it that way.
I am learning that a lot of men who fantasize about being locked up really have a hard time when their wives or partners take those denial fantasies seriously. Some men manage to live selflessly and to focus on giving their partner pleasure. I'm thankful that my husband is like this and has always been attentive and focused on making me satisfied.
Also I like that you realize that denying your husband privileges could be upsetting to him and are trying to keep your connection to him by unlocking him for regular orgasms. Even if they aren't what he would prefer, the idea that you care enough to touch him that way lets him know that you still care about his pleasure. And I like to think that most of us want to give pleasure to our partners. It's just that pleasure looks different for some of us.
Please let me know how your experiment with the gloves works out for you.
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