two of my coworkers were talking about movies and one of them brought up elliot page and were talking about his movies and neither of them deadnamed or misgendered him and like. i mean 1) i was surprised but 2) i probably had the warm fuzzies for several hours afterwards
#idk if either of them knows im trans or not because even to other queer people i dont advertise that at all#i will mostly only be open about it other trans men/trans mascs and usually they already know bc we can both tell lol#so theres a lot of 'we're all cis here so im about to say something terrible' that happens esp at work#but not this time. was a happy surprise#actually ive had a very good pride month so far if im only counting conversations with coworkers#i told one of the other trans men who goes to knit group who im pretty close with that he/him are just my work pronouns#and outside of work i use it/its and he was cool with it. like had some respectful questions and wasnt mean about it#so that was lovely. and then i kind of accidentally came out to another (gay) coworker that im aroace and she was really nice about it too#i basically never divulge those things to people irl because ive Seen Some Shit and just assume the reaction will be bad#it was nice to be proven wrong
