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One important thing to remember in life: Do not coddle men. Do not do their work for them. Do not perform uncredited labor for them, including intellectual labor. Do not bend over backwards to help them. Do not tell them they are good at things they are bad at. Do not smile at them when you donât want to. Do not laugh at their terrible jokes or stroke their egos or let them think they are better than you when odds are good that they are almost definitely not. Do not even deal with men whose presence bothers you when you can get away from them/when you arenât regularly forced to be near them for things like work. Do not include men in your life who donât deserve to be in it any time that you can avoid it at all.
this post pairs well with this one:
This is the best pair of separatist manifestos Iâve seen.
we let tumblr losers whose entire sexual lives are nothing but fanfiction and badly drawn erotica of cartoon characters anoint themselves the Super Cool Authorities on Sex and thatâs why the gist of âsex positivityâ on here is just pro-porn and pro-kink and often nearly entirely detached from any actual tangible sexuality. sex with real people and real bodies and real intimacy. 21st century digital age capitalism in which your real sexuality is replaced with a wholly commodified form built entirely off of exploitation and massive wage theft. porn is not real. these people think pornography is sex and they want to call you anti-sex. lmfao
WE HAVE AN EXCESS MALE POPULATION
Listen, I dont really care if you shave or if you have a bush or something. But there are a bunch of takes surrounding this topic that always make me roll my eyes. 1) "everytime i let my pubic hair grow it gets so itchy :(" Let it grow more! Of course stubble will be itchy! what did you think! Some bushes grow fast but mine took over three months to be at a comfortable length. 2) "sEnSoRY iSsuEs" oh my god shut up. Shaved bush is a sensory nightmare. It lasts for one day or so and then it gets stubbly. Shaving itself is a sensory nightmare. "rubbing smooth legs together" is also a one-day thing. And also why do adhd/autistic men NEVER have "unshaved anything" as a sensory trigger? 3) "I just feel more clean" Shaving always is an invitation for infections and irritation and ingrown hairs. Tiny invisible cuts let all kinds of disgusting crap into your body. The hair is there for a reason, it protects you. If you pubic hair stinks, you are not washing yourself enough and shaving won't save you. Go take a shower. 4) I am aware that there might be medical conditions that require you to shave something but I don't believe 98% percent of you when you tell me that having natural normal body hair not ripped out or cut off for some reason is medically necessary. Like. Even for surgeries doctors told me to not shave at all and that theyd do it during surgery. Self diagnosing with bald pussy syndrome In conclusion.. just say you don't want to stop shaving because it's a part of female socialisation you can't get rid of (yet). I'll judge you WAY less than for any of the above mentioned bullshit. In fact, I won't judge you at all. Female socialization is one hell of a drug, its not easy to shake. If it was, radical feminism would be useless. Just be honest with yourself and others
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Liberal men: Porn is EMPOWERING for women and my wife is a stuck up prude for getting mad at me for watching it.
Conservative men: Porn is EVIL and it is my WIFE'S fault that I have a porn addiction because she let herself gain weight after giving birth to our 4 children.
there's a common pattern where someone drinks respect women juice and wants to support girls entering male-dominated fields but they're still hyper-focused on femininity and it comes out in weird exhortations that you can play sport without being an ugly lesbian, mechanical engineers can wear high heels, you can care about software as well as hair and nails, and it's like thank you but please shut up
You canât change your gender because gender is the social expectations placed on you by virtue of your sex e.g. femininity is the gender assigned to females.
You canât change your sex because sex is an immutable part of your biology that extends down to the cellular level e.g. female is the term for a member of the sex that produces large gametes.
What you *can* do is wear whatever you want and act however you want and like whoever you want regardless of what anybody says and regardless of your gender and sex. That is truly radical.
Elle Woods did not graduate as Valedictorian of Harvard Law for you to associate women in power with having a lack of âtraditional femininityâ
Wear pink, be a hopeless romantic and kick ass ladies
alternatively: consider that the character of Elle Woods was specifically designed to be hyper-feminine because the writers knew that the movieâs entire premise of a woman working hard to get into a prestigious law school and ultimately becoming even more successful than her boyfriend would only be palatable to the masses if she showed excessive performance of femininity in order to atone for her âun-feminineâ achievements and ambitions, which would serve to:
pacify those who might accuse such a storyline of being âfeminazi propagandaâ (see: reception of the ghost busters remake)
give viewers eye candy (playboy bunny outfit, bikinis, and tight-fitting, low-cut dresses)
etc
lastly, letâs not forget the way she convinced the admissions staff to accept her:
wow guys! super empowering!
No. Elleâs femininity isnât something that was thrown in just to âatoneâ for her âun-feminineâ achievements and ambitions. Did you even watch the movie? Elle was constantly underestimated because of her femininity. At the very beginning of the movie, Warner breaks up with Elle because he thinks she isnât smart enough for him since he thinks women can be either smart or pretty. Throughout the movie, people constantly look down on Elle, not because she is a woman, but because she is a feminine woman. Vivian looks down on Elle because immediately assumes that a woman who is so feminine must less intelligent than her.
The movie isnât just about a woman who becomes successful, itâs about a feminine woman becoming successful. The point being made is that feminine women arenât stupid or less âseriousâ than women who arenât feminine and that their femininity isnât a flaw to be corrected. Itâs calling out people like you who look down on such women. Elleâs femininity isnât thrown in to make the movie âpalatable to the massesâ. Itâs important for the point the movie is trying to make.
Of course the movie is making a point. And itâs a shitty, straw-man point designed to push the practice of extreme femininity as âcoolâ and ârebelliousâ, when in fact thatâs exactly what society wants women to do.
Think about it. The media and culture around us is CONSTANTLY celebrating the performance of femininityâ itâs literally everywhere you look. The ads on the bus, the commercials before your YouTube videos, the toys marketed to young girls, the clothes that are available for womenâs body types. The movie is just more of the same propaganda for the practice of extreme femininity.
The âvillainsâ in the movie that criticize elle for her femininity are precisely thatâ characters. Characters made up to prove a point against an issue that doesnât exist. These fake people are set up in order to construct the staw man argument that performing femininity is an admirable act of rebellion against a world which shuns feminine women. This world does not exist. Case in point, the real people watching the movie, the audience (the general public), universally approves of elleâs femininity. And the storyâs narrative only serves to reinforce that position in the viewer.
Youâre right though, itâs true that feminine women get underestimated and are thought of as less capable. But so do non-feminine women. Really, all women in general experience this. Thatâs misogyny for you. In the workplace, if youâre hyper feminine, youâre considered ditzy and will have to prove yourself through even harder work than the men. If youâre unfeminine, youâre an irresponsible slob who has to get her act together before she can be trusted with important things. Itâs a double edged swordâ thereâs no winning as a woman in the workforce.
And in everyday life, femininity is a bargaining piece women have to use in order to receive basic respect. Most of them donât even realize this, at least not consciously. The world is significantly easier to navigate as a woman who practices femininityâ just ask your local butch lesbian or other GNC women. Do you really think they get off easier? Donât the insults of âdykeâ, âslobâ, âhairyâ, and âunladylikeâ ring a bell? Donât you think thereâs a reason you only ever see women with full faces of makeup on the morning news while their male counterparts only need powder for the cameras? What about the fully shaven actresses who play in a TV series set in the Middle Ages? Or the female superheroes who fight crime in skintight pants and high heels? Femininity is the expectation for women.
Women donât like to acknowledge that their femininity is a performance, because if they did, theyâd also have to accept that it is something theyâre doing in order to gain better treatment since, as women, they are viewed as lesser and are treated poorly just because they are female. And thatâs a hard, painful pill to swallow. So instead, we embrace pieces of media like Legally Blonde, and reassure ourselves that what weâre doing is purely our choice, not affected by the environment we live in. And in the process we keep right on buying those high heels, that concealer, and all the other products of femininity that are pushed on us by capitalism and the patriarchy. We keep playing by their rules in order to survive and keep our peace of mind.
âLet women be feminineâ posts I hope you catch fire and die

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its difficult for men to come forward about sexual assault because they are afraid of being laughed at, unlike women who have no dignity or shame. obviously
Relevant to that article on male suffering:
I was discussing this with a friend recently, with regards to Valerie Solanas. She is usually talked about either with derision or extreme contempt, as a complete psycho; the total lack of compassion for her lifetime of suffering is mind-blowing. Men have put her through pretty much every horrifying experience a woman can go through. She was raped by her father age 5/6, then raped by her stepfather as a teen so that she had a first child when she was 14, then a second one the next year, whom she had to give up for adoption. She was homeless for decades and had to prostitute herself to survive, with everything that entails. She also spent years in detention centres and mental hospitals in horrific living conditions (cockroaches in her food and the like), where she was raped again, by prison doctors this time. When she got out she went back to being homeless (and said that was worse than living in lunatic asylums), and since she was now infamous as the Warhol shooter she had people spitting on her in the street and generally lived a life of extreme isolation and poverty. In the last years of her life several people who knew her reported having seen her begging in the streets, covered in sores and wearing nothing but a blanket.
None of this is ever brought up at all to take even an iota of responsibility off of her for shooting Warhol, or to justify or excuse her âinsaneâ opinions. Most people probably donât even know about it. But a man can rape (or murder) multiple women and girls and his backstory that âledâ him to this is always taken into account. Even the people who donât see his suffering as a mitigating factor at least know about it because itâs talked about, asked about; it matters. Male suffering is grotesquely over-valued, over-acknowledged and pandered toâby men and women alikeâwhile female suffering isnât worth mentioning, let alone caring about. Which is why male serial killers have fangirls on tumblr, who probably despise Valerie Solanas if theyâve heard of her⌠One of the most feminist acts you can do is to stop wasting any of your empathy on men and redirect it towards women, because the worldwide imbalance in compassion is completely off the charts.
â⌠One of the most feminist acts you can do is to stop wasting any of your empathy on men and redirect it towards women, because the worldwide imbalance in compassion is completely off the charts.â
men never have to try to heal if someone is always there coddling and enabling them thatâs why they go insane whenever they canât find a woman to dump all their emotional baggage on. if they always have someone process their emotions and energy for them, they never learn to do it themselves.
right now men who canât get a woman are driving themselves insane and acting like toddlers instead of trying to cope with their own emotions/meet their own needs.
On December 9, 2008, Amber Cummings shot and killed her white supremacist husband James as he slept in their Belfast, Maine home. James physically and sexually abused Amber and their 9-year-old daughter. He idolized Hitler and collected Nazi memorabilia. His anger worsened after the 2008 election when a black man became president. Amberâs final straw was finding his child pornography. At their house, police found radioactive materials and instructions to make a dirty bomb. They called in the FBI, who believe James intended on bombing Obamaâs inauguration. Amber accepted a plea deal of 8 years after successfully using a battered-woman defense. In 2010, a judge suspended her sentence and she was released. Sheâd done the world a favor and suffered enough.
HERO
I want to add she made it a priority that her daughter would unlearn the racism her father instilled in her
Exhibit 2120
new england women representation!!!!

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i want to see my favourite FEMALE characters covered in blood and under heavy emotional distress #feminism