no worse feeling than going on some subculture fashion clothing website and seeing the size chart runs from extra small to petite to pequeño to microscopique. yeah here at DeathKillFuckShadow Fantastique Cloth Imaginations i think you’ll find that we see the world a bit difference… we have bleak brutal imaginations… what if blood and fangs were COOL… but we cannot in our most tortured imaginations picture a woman who has a stouter frame than the fucking Insulindian Phasmid

we are NOT bringing 4chan incel terminology to this site, take that "foid" out of your post and go wash your blog out with soap

the same sentiment goes for words like "theyfab" by the way. even if this post is primarily about misogyny, making up words to mock nonbinary persons who "post femininely" or "don't pass" or whatever is transphobic (and dareisay still somewhat misogynistic to denote someone as "girly" for the way they post) and still stems from the same general source. especially when it's used in the context that I usually see it used, wherein the target has not posted about their gender at birth at all and people on here still assume "afab" because they post about "girly" topics (or use they/them at all; there's definitely a weird trend on here where people just assume somebody using gender neutral pronouns must be afab). Cut from the same cloth, same shit different toilet. you go wash your blog out with soap too.

people have this tendency to believe that fandom discourse exists because people in fandoms are Stupid Nerdy Losers, but in fact fandom discourse exists because anytime you get a group of more than 100 people together, they will start creating interpersonal bullshit. fandom is not special in this regard

There is sports discourse. There is yarn discourse. There is food discourse. There is academic discourse (dear sweet god is there academic discourse). If there are people out there collecting brass buttons specifically from 1921, they are going to have discourse about which buttons are trash and whether Person A cheated person B. To be human is to engage in pointless wankery sometimes.

imagine you have a movie with oscar isaac and john boyega and people fixate on adam driver instead. this actually happened

I do think it's kind of funny how john green wrote a book about tuberculosis that brought a lot of renewed attention to the subject and he's since become the darling of the tb world, speaks at tb conferences, my dad and every other tb researcher I know is absolutely smitten with him, and they'll be like "we love this guy! have you heard of him??" and I have to be like well yes, I have. for other reasons

"susie is neglecting reality for the dark world" <- stupidest take ive ever seen

she is a homeless runaway for the love of god she doesn't HAVE anyone else besides kris and asriel. the dark world is a much needed support for a child who has none, even if that support is "imaginary". thats the whole difference between her and asgore, as his dark world is maladaptive and actively reinforcing his bad behavior, while susie's is helping her cope with her shitty life and learn to become a better person

i have so many thoughts about the flowery ralsei dynamic that i do not know how to articulate yet because i love it so much but it's so funny that they have this almost mentor mentee relationship where the lessons are delivered primarily through rage baiting ralsei until they articulate every repressed feeling they've been hiding since chapter one. it's like gerson being exceedingly kind to susie cause he knew she needed encouragement but it's flowery realising ralsei needs a rage room and can't have one so he gives ralsei the best alternative instead