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hi, im mod spade [he/8self]! currently im the only mod here, but im a hardworking one :]

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modnote: hi anon!! i don't have a more polite way to say this but i really believe you should friend dump that person. it feels a lot [from my limited perspective] like they don't really have your best interests at heart? if you feel like that's too sudden id gently confront them and ask why they keep bringing it up. DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER IF THEY TRY TO OFFER polyamory is great but if you two were unhealthy and they keep being Weird about it that's a bad sign.

i fear i am dumb as a bag of rocks

one chance [expunged] please just one chance to be your cartoon rival and makeout partner /silly

modnote: hey anon, i totally understand how you feel. id say talking it through with your boyfriend is probably the best idea. i know it's scary, but if you don't communicate then things might be harder down the line. you should talk with your possible kismesis as well and let them know of the possibility you won't be able to be in a rivalry with them.

modnote: please know that if your boyfriend blows up, tries to manipulate or hurt you or himself, or go after your possible kismesis, this isn't exactly the best of behavior for being in a relationship. if it's difficult to communicate with him often, it might not be the best relationship [if only by virtue of breakdown of communication, im not sure how he treats you so idk about the other big factors]. please stay safe, but don't be afraid to have hard conversations.

△△ ashen crush. on two people who 1. have almost certainly never even heard of homestuck, 2. are probably both straight men and 3. would probably just be outright uninterested

△△△△△ yearnning hours c/3<

(△△ if anyone recognizes me by my quirk no you dont)

me and person A have pitch feelings for eachother. we have explicitly stated this to eachother and we would like to get into a kismesissitude.

the problem is that A's matesprit, B, is monogamous and A doesnt know how B would feel about us being in a relationship. B hasnt read homestuck and doesnt plan to, and A is hesitant about talking to B about entering a pitch relationship with with me out of fear that B wouldn't understand/it'd hurt their matespritship

(side note: B considers their relationship as a normal human romance, i use matespritship as a close descriptor for it so this ask makes more sense)

i dont really know what to do? i hate A a lot, and hes a wimp when it comes to confrontation. ideally we could all talk it out but. (and i say this nicely in case A finds this ask) B is a hardass and i dont feel like they'd really be up to communicating.

so... does anyone have any suggestions?