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Last year on the 14th, Ensler decided that One Billion Rising, Canada was going to spotlight Indigenous women. What she failed to recognize and acknowledge in her spotlighting efforts was that February 14th is already an important day on the calendar for Indigenous women across the country, and has been so for decades. This year will mark the 23rd annual Women’s Memorial March, which originated in Downtown Eastside in Vancouver and has since spread across the country. These events are specific and important because they were created in the context of structural and societal indifference towards Indigenous women, and in response to the widespread problem of their disappearances and murders.

The actions made by V-Day on February 14, 2013 bulldozed and railroaded existing grassroots organizing by Indigenous women, and then attempted to silence Indigenous women for dissenting. This was not the first time that V-Day and Ensler were condemned by Indigenous women, and these actions are unfortunately emblematic of mainstream feminism and its anti-violence movement.

Today, One Billion Rising is bigger and louder than ever, with thousands of events planned around the world. A short film about them premiered at the Sundance Film Festival earlier this year. Pop singer Pink recently led a dance in their support. In San Francisco, One Billion Rising events will feature famous performers, including a rapper from the Black Eyed Peas. Natalie Merchant is singing in NYC. V-Day has also partnered with SAFER Campus, called Campus Rising, to produce initiatives to influence campus assault policy and procedures. The organization also has massive support from law enforcement, prosecutors, and city officials in cities across the country, and even launched the U.S. Prisons Project.

Mainstream Feminism and Harmful Approaches to Gender Justice

Eve Ensler’s V-Day has become synonymous with violence against women. The Vagina Monologues dominate college campuses, and celebrities rush to be spokespeople for the organization. She has developed substantial influence in the media, the ability to reign in money, and most importantly and dangerously: the ability to sway national policy. The V-Day idea of gender justice has had a major impact on mainstream feminism, and has been able to cultivate a narrative of addressing sexual and domestic violence by means that are actually harmful to women of color.

Throughout the past couple of months, we have been having Twitter chats such as #FreeMarissa which centered on Marissa Alexander’s incarceration and how many women of color are being incarcerated through anti-violence policy, and #CrimVAW which focused on the criminalization of girls and women of color and all of the ways the state creates policies to punish them. #IDidNotReport covered reasons why victims of sexual violence do not report to authorities – including knowing the shame, blame, and possibly punishment that often comes from doing so. Many of the sentiments and points embedded in #FreeMarissa and #CrimVAW discussed federal and state interpersonal violence policies. They highlighted how mainstream feminist anti-violence policies backfire on women of color and other marginalized groups. We also shared these problems in the #CleryChat and #CampusSAVEAct discussion to express how carceral solutions directly hurt people of color on campus.

As we have laid out in many of our Twitter chats, the general message of “empower to report and demand justice from law enforcement” is what gets women (of color) incarcerated. Meanwhile, Ensler and One Billion Rising and have decided to launch the U.S. Prisons Project, with the idea to make prisons more habitable and less violent for our country’s overflowing population of incarcerated women. This idea is inconsistent with other approaches One Billion Rising has promoted; as Mariame Kaba of Project Nia states, “She has announced herself ready to discuss and address the negative consequences of increased criminalization. Yet just a few months ago, One Billion Rising, Ensler’s global ‘anti-violence’ campaign, was primarily encouraging survivors of interpersonal violence to report their rapes and assaults to law enforcement.” Instead of dismantling the Prison Industrial Complex, the U.S. Prisons Project is ultimately reinforcing the structure that targets women of color, who are victims of interpersonal violence, with mass incarceration as the goal.

The “Benevolence” of White Women

White feminism does not provide a frame of reference to address issues that affect Indigenous people, or other women of color, that is not based in white supremacy. The standards of justice, equality, and even definitions of gender violence are white. One of the most glaring examples of this disconnect was the tribal provisions in the 2013 re-authorization of the Violence Against Women Act. For a decade, Indigenous women had worked on a restoration of sovereignty to present to the federal government as a specific redress to violence. While organizing to get VAWA reauthorized with full tribal provisions, I ran into significant pushback from white feminist groups who were ready to cut that portion of the bill off and let it sink, because tribal authority had become a point of contention with our elected officials.

When the answer to solving interpersonal violence doesn’t include a harsher crackdown by law enforcement, mainstream feminism has trouble coping. It also tends to have negative attitudes about giving power back to tribal governments, because their idea is that Indigenous women need to be rescued by the benevolence of white women from scary, savage brown men on reservations.

This year, a new piece of legislation is on the table called theInternational Violence Against Women Act. The idea behind this legislation is that the United States and white feminism need to rescue women and girls around the world from their abusers by instilling western values and approaches to solving violence into other countries. One Billion Rising has listed the I-VAWA as a top priority to assist our federal government in passing. V-Day, in partnership with other white feminist organizations, is attempting to help replicate the same Prison Industrial Complex that efficiently locks up women of color in the United States to countries around the world. “(I-VAWA) would permanently integrate gender-based violence prevention and response into all U.S. government programming overseas operates,” says Amnesty International. This means U.S. military members and contractors, whoare violence against women globally, would be enforcing this.

Tellingly, when Ensler and I spoke to discuss the serious problems with her platform and organization, she explicitly told me that none of the people who are part of One Billion Rising are mandated to complete any type of training. White feminism has sent the message that it’s acceptable to use survivorhood to perpetuate ideas about what interpersonal violence is, and this has influence over national policy. The result is people using survivorhood as an anecdote to address a problem they have no concept of.

Ensler herself is a playwright and an actor. She’s not someone who works on, or understands violence outside of being a survivor. Sexual assault and domestic violence are pervasive problems, yet it is her brand of anti-violence which ends up guiding the conversation and having the power and platform to decide “solutions”… solutions which end up being destructive and harmful.

There Is No We

Ultimately, there is no “just turn to the system to have some order in addressing sexualized violence” because the system does not operate to help us.

There is no “we.”

There is no “all rape victims.”

Women of color continue to discuss the ways in which state violence is significant and is used to break up our communities to further harm us. That structure is violence; it is historically predicated on rounding up and locking away Indigenous and Black people. The existing system is not a place we are able to turn to for help. When mainstream white feminism is continually calling for more laws, punishments, for strengthened ties with law enforcement, and expanded police jurisdiction, they are enabling the violence against us. There is no “we,” because this approach is at the expense of us. Women of color become collateral damage in the continued quest to uphold and protect white womanhood.

The problem with the framing of sexualized violence as an issue that hurts all women equally is that it erases many of the historical and current experiences for Indigenous women. Rape in particular is a force of colonization. It is a tool used to acquire land and keep the United States empire going. While Indigenous communities are doing work to address internalized symptoms of colonization such as interpersonal violence, this interpersonal violence is not something traditional to many Indigenous Nations.

Photo from a jingle dress healing dance which was performed last February 14 at the state capitol in Montana. The jingle dance was done to heal survivors of sexual assault, and to dance for VAWA, and be in solidarity with the 2/14 marches in Canada.

As Andrea Smith says, “If we were to develop a feminist history centering Native women, feminist history in this country would start in 1492 with resistance to patriarchal colonization.” Part of patriarchal colonization includes white women. White settler feminism likes to say we’re “all” fighting the patriarchy and ending violence against women without acknowledging or claiming the part they played in instilling patriarchy into Indigenous communities.

The Diocese of Helena, Montana is in the middle of filing for bankruptcydue to the large-scale lawsuit launched against them in 2012 for sexually abusing Indigenous children in boarding schools and missions during the 1930s-1970s. Ursulines in a different Catholic order are being sued for being complicit in the rape and murder of Indigenous children. Settler colonialism and white women being colonizers contradicts the idea that we’re all women experiencing the same violence in the same way. We’re not, and we don’t.

Opposing V-Day and Supporting Community-Based Approaches to Anti-Violence

We have fundamental and ideological differences about interpersonal violence, justice, organizing, and solutions. Save Wiyabi is an advocacy group that addresses interpersonal violence within Indigenous communities and assists in community-based solutions. The Save Wiyabi Map is a map and database documenting missing, and solved and unsolved murders of Indigenous women in Canada and the United States, making this information accessible and visible online. (Of course, white feminism continues to bash Anonymous for the justice ops centered around rape victims, while never mentioning Operation Thunderbird, an initiative launched by Indigenous women with the assistance of the Anonymous network, and responsible for putting together this vital digital tool.)

The Save Wiyabi Map and database documenting missing, and solved and unsolved murders of Indigenous women in Canada and the United States

On an ongoing basis, many of the individuals and organizations that Save Wiyabi collaborates with work on restoring bonds with our men, two-spirit people, and reclaiming our sense of being Indigenous, and reclaiming our sense of being a people.

In contrast, the harsher crackdown on interpersonal violence facilitated by mainstream feminism is designed to break up Indigenous communities, because that is the inherent goal of the state. The idea of women unifying and sharing gender experiences only works under the assumption that women of color are going to submit and be nice to their oppressor – and it is an assumption mainstream feminism has no issue with. But this is not going to happen, because we are going to continue to dismantle systematic forces of oppression and ongoing colonization. This includes supporting our own efforts to organize against violence, and for many of us that includes opposing V-Day.

V-Day is a corporation and a pillar of the White Savior Industrial Complex, with interests that involve exploiting and colonizing Indigenous people through their global domination. Indigenous women become mascots to the “cause” where our dance, pain, and stories are put in books, TED Talks, and turned into campaigns that aren’t about us, to inspire white women and make them feel better about themselves. The continued usurping of Indigenous women’s lives and work to spread a worldwide message of justice and equality defined by white western feminism and backed by the United States system of incarceration is colonialism. Enacting the legal structure of the U.S. is not ending violence against women globally, it’s inciting it.

By: Haseena M.

Loretta Saunders’ body was found in a ditch off the Trans-Canada Highway. She was 26-years-old. She was a member of the Inuit nation. She was pregnant. She was a student at St. Mary’s University. She was last heard from on Valentine’s Day, the same day as the 23rd Annual Women’s Memorial March to honour the memory of missing and murdered Indigenous women in Canada. Most ironically, she was in the process of completing her undergraduate degree in criminology and sociology with a thesis on missing and murdered Indigenous women in Canada.  

She is one amongst many, too many, Indigenous women that have been experienced the violence, disregard and disrespect of the racism and misogyny within the Canadian criminal justice system and the Canadian nation-state.

In Toronto, the day was marked by the 9th Annual Strawberry Ceremony. This year’s ceremony was meant to acknowledge three Indigenous women who have died violent deaths in the city since last year’s ceremony. Presented in partnership with the Native Youth Sexual Health Network and No More Silence and other grassroots Indigenous women’s organizations, the 14th has been a day to remember missing and murdered indigenous women for over twenty years.  

Last year, the day was co-opted for Eve Ensler’s One Billion Rising Campaign.

According to their website, “One Billion Rising For Justice is a global call to women survivors of violence and those who love them to gather safely in community outside places where they are entitled to justice – courthouses, police stations, government offices, school administration buildings, work places, sites of environmental injustice, military courts, embassies, places of worship, homes, or simply public gathering places where women deserve to feel safe but too often do not.  It is a call to survivors to break the silence and release their stories – politically, spiritually, outrageously – through art, dance, marches, ritual, song, spoken word, testimonies and whatever way feels right.”

People in 207 countries participated. In Toronto there was a dance celebration at night and a huge public rally in the afternoon sponsored by City Councilor Kristyn Wong-Tam and the YWCA Toronto. 

At the same time about ten minutes away, folks were participating the 8th Annual Strawberry Ceremony. 

Over the last 30 years in Canada, over 600 Indigenous women have been murdered or gone missing, according to research conducted by the Native Women’s Association of Canada under the Sisters in Spirit program. The funding for said program was capped by the federal government, with remaining funds being redirected to the Central Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP) Missing Persons Centre. The RCMP along with the Vancouver Police being the same forces that “failed to effectively investigate” the murders of 21 women committed by Robert Pickton 1997.

This spring, a documentary called Highway of Tears will be released. This film will discuss the cases and lives of women who have gone missing along Highway 16 in Western Canada (expanded to include parts of Highway 97 and Highway 5). The investigation includes over 30 women that have gone missing along a 1500 kilometer stretch. 

The continued disproportionate rates of violence against Indigenous women, women-identified persons, trans women and two-spirited folks is abhorrent example of the blatant disregard of the Canadian government, justice system and investigative forces when it comes to Indigenous lives. 

While Eve Ensler’s campaign may have merit in terms of raising awareness and cursory visibility about violence against women internationally, it is extremely important for Canadians to show solidarity at events like the Strawberry Ceremony and support grassroots indigenous women’s organizations that aim to document, investigate and eliminate violence against Indigenous women in Canada. 

"I dance for our people and not for causes defined by others. On February 14th, I stand with the memorial marches, and honor the missing and murdered Indigenous women." The 14th is five days away, for more information and to find a time and location for a march near you, please see: http://womensmemorialmarch.wordpress.com/ If you are in the U.S. please consider organizing and participating in a solidarity event. You can also make a last minute donation to the Downtown East Side (Vancouver) march fund here:https://www.canadahelps.org/CharityProfilePage.aspx?

But as someone who has been a radical feminist for longer than tumblr has existed, my advice for everyone is to not look at radical feminism as a social club.

I have made a small handful of dear IRL friends via online radical feminism discussions, but there has not been an actual cohesive radical feminist community, that was not also populated by infiltrators and half-assers, ever.

It’s the same with any online manifestation of a social movement. The nature of the internet lends itself to abuse by i-dentity politickers who have no actual comitment to the cause, but like the label for their own reasons.

Try not to put much stock in what one insular group of radical feminists is doing/saying at any given time.

I am a Survivors of the Abortion Holocaust. 1/3 of my generation is gone and I will not turn my back on this tragedy. I have taken up my cross and joined the front lines of the Abortion Wars.

"1/3 of my generation is gone and I will not turn my back on this tragedy." Yeah, and one third of ‘your generation’ lives in poverty, is hungry, needs medical care, is being abused, and needs support yet you weep over the ‘injustice’ of abortion.

"I have taken up my cross and joined the front lines of the Abortion Wars." You are not Jesus. You are not a hero. You are a person sitting behind a little screen crying over some fertilized eggs.

"I will mourn the lost of 56+ million babies," Mourn the loss of the BILLIONS of babies who will die from hunger. Or who will die TONIGHT because of lack of health services. Mourn the loss of the MILLIONS of little girls who will die by suicide, in childbirth, or by the hands of their husbands because they are child-brides. Fetuses do not need you, real, living little kids need you.

"I will grieve over the death of baby Isaiah, I will fight for the inherent right to life," Sorry to break it to ya, but there isn’t an ‘inherent right to life.’ If there was, war, poverty, lack of healthcare, and the death penalty wouldn’t be around.

"for women to stop being treated as sex objects" The first step of this is to stop seeing us as objects to carry a pregnancy. If we don’t want to be pregnant, we don’t want to be fucking pregnant and there is NOTHING you can say that will stop that.

"and for the post-abortive mothers and fathers who suffer in silence," Or you can just support them, no need to ‘fight’ anyone. People who regret their abortion need, first and foremost, people like you to shut the fuck up about ‘abortion is evil!’ ‘abortion kills a baby!’ because THAT is what causes the stigma. THAT makes people suffer. Second, they need people who will LISTEN without judgement. They need people who will SUPPORT how they feel, even if they are HAPPY about their abortion.

"and lastly pray for the end of abortion."

my little sister is in the running for my hometown’s all-area athlete of the year award for swimming!!!

she is a senior in high school, and she’s been swimming for almost her entire life. she is SO strong, smart, and very dedicated to her sport!! she has a gold medal from states, boxes and boxes of medals and ribbons, and also swims on a club when high school swim season is over—she just had an awesome meet two weeks ago!!

her 18th birthday is in two weeks, and I think helping her win this would be a great present!

the polls close at NOON on dec 20th, eastern time, so time is of the essence!

PLEASE reblog so that your followers can vote as well, and remember that you can vote more than once!!!! right now she is just barely in fourth place, but if each of my followers voted for her just a few times she could win it! the polls close in less than 24 hours but i have seen tumblr do incredible things in less time!

Let me know if this is me stepping out my line because I am NOT Muslim or Jewish, at all, but from what I know:

1) Islamophobia is not entirely racism, but it is certainly based on racism.  To say otherwise is perpetuating islamophobia in itself, and it perpetuates the idea also that islamophobia is not as harmful as it actually is.  Which is that it is pretty fucking harmful.  

2) Why are you grouping Jews with Nazis?  Why? Doing that in ANY way for your political rhetoric is DISGUSTING and antisemitic and you and the rest of your neoliberal ilk need to stop allowing that kind of shit NOW.  

3) Islam and Judaism are both ethno-religous identities.  Unlike Christianity, they actually face quite a lot of hate from pretty much everyone (ie. racial profiling, religious profiling, racism micro and macro-aggressions, etc.) which you all seem very ignorant of and very okay with in the first place.

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