HUMAN AFTER ALL

babe

baby

sweetie

cutie pie

darling

honey

unacceptable pet names:

boo boo sweetie oojy woojy poogy poo

cthulu 

sweet devil prince in the pale moon light

Leslie

floor

2% milk

1. Don’t interrupt. Let the speaker finish what they are saying – and at a speed that is comfortable for them – before formulating your own response.

2. Give the speaker your full and undivided attention. Ignore what is happening around you and block out distracting noises.

3. Pay attention to your own internal dialogue, and don’t allow your mind to wander. This is not the time for you to be judging, or mentally criticising the speaker, or to be thinking about all the items on your to-do list. Focus on what is being said, the tone of voice, and the body language of the speaker.

4. Pay attention to your own body language. Ask yourself: what kind of vibes am I giving off? What kind of message am I sending? The emphasis should be on looking and sounding concerned, interested, focused, accepting and genuine.

5. Be comfortable with silence. Often silence encourages the person to say more. Also, we don’t need to have an answer to every question, or a solution to every problem. Most of the time it’s presence and empathy that count the most.