Plutocratics (The Nasty)

i actually don't think it's unreasonable to have lines between "kinks that are weird and gross to YOU but are perfectly harmless and you should mind your own business" and "kinks that are weird and gross but in a way that's actually tangibly harmful and you should probably have a problem with" like yes there will always be weird puritanical people who think that a fart fetish is the exact same level of "degeneracy" (which is a weird you should never use btw) as actual pedophilia, but like i don't think the solution to people being prudish about sex should be the opposite extreme of having 0 standards. it's kinda lazy in my opinion.

i've seen this trend of people on tumblr posting "people who have weird sex fetishes are a key part of the community and alienating them is not going to make straight people like you more" or some variation of that discourse which like yes i agree that people with weird sex fetishes are cool, but than someone will asks"ok but pedophilia and incest is bad, right?" which in case like 99 percent of the time op is like "um can't believe you completely missed the point of the post" and it's like uh no actually that bit is actually very important and kind of recontextizes the entire post because the fact that you include "incest and raceplay and lolicon porn" on the same level as like. pupplay or gaining is like. an issue. like people in extremely kink positive standards still have basic standards and guidelines to prevent potential abuse, there's a reason alot of kinksters got really pissed at 50 shades of grey, or why there's guides for impact play so you don't permanently scar your partner, there are still like. basic accountability guys???

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also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

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why is it that ppl hear "fetish" and immediately think "devoid of morals" like ur genuinely not making sense. ppl dont actually become inhuman and beast-like when theyre turned on, thats something we are told bc it aligns with christian patriarcal values, u know that right? desire isnt actually bad. it doesnt make you evil, or incapable of having/respecting boundaries

i got a response to this abt how men get horny and "lose their minds" and "causes" them to behave vile. i rlly rlly neeeeed ppl to understand that men behaving inappropriately when turned on is something they are *choosing* to do, and when you equate that to human nature you are enabling them and diminishing the seriousness of that choice