Immature vs Mature Fandoms
I met with one of my Fans and Fan Communities students yesterday to talk about her research project on Taylor Swift and Swifties. The student is interested in what leads Swifities to remain or leave the fandom given all the changes in Swift's discography, as well as more recently her political activism.
One thing we discussed is how a fandom can grow and change over time just like people do. I've been thinking about the developmental trajectory of a fandom as related to identity formation, so here are some ideas to that end.
Fandoms can start like children, where we become emotionally attached to something we love. Then, over time, as we learn that others are fans of the same thing, we may develop the affirmational and/or transformational aspects of our fandom as we negotiate how others are emotionally attached to the same thing. It's almost like when children have siblings, and there's the process of working out how to share the love of parents. Well, fans who engage with other fans need to work out how sharing the fandom will impact them -- and perhaps attachment anxieties play a role here...
Additionally, as fandom becomes more integrated into one's identity and sense of self -- especially in relationship to other fans, non-fans, and anti-fans -- then the fans may act out and jockey to curry their love's and fan community's attention and favors. Perhaps those most insecure about their relationship with the fandom may be more likely to act out in such adolescent frustration, anxiety, and rebellion.
If not handled well, this adolescence can result in long-term issues with the fandom -- the idea of "falling in with the wrong crowd" as it were that begets the worst types of online trolls and other forms of anonymous harassers.
If not handled well, when that fandom is confronted with information that challenges it -- say, oh, that Joss Whedon is an asshole -- then a fandom stuck in an immature adolescence could become extremely defensive and toxic, preferring to only be around other fans experiencing the same pain and not learning how to renegotiate their relationship with the fandom.
A mature fandom emerges through such renegotiation in recognition of the pain the fandom may be causing oneself and others. A mature fandom accepts differences of interpretation and opinion, new additions to that which they love, and conflicts of belief and cognitive dissonance rationally.
A mature fandom can lead to a lifelong fandom. An immature fandom may sputter and die faster, hurting people from its toxicity.